I believe that we need to pray that God will reach in and that the Holy Spirit will begin a work in that persons life. None of us know what goes on within a person near to death. Also none of us know how another person truly feels about things they have done wrong, they may seem unrepentant on a human external level, but that doesn’t mean they feel that way when they are alone. I believe that only Jesus / Holy Spirit can bring about repentance. I didn’t realise I was a sinner until the Holy Spirit began to work in my life and that came about through strangers praying for the young mums who were going to attend the church playgroup. I always believed in God but only really classed thieves, murderers ect as sinners.
Some things we have to leave with God, our part is to be ‘in the gap ‘ for others. No one is beyond the Lords reach and he died for the sins of mankind, not just some of the sins of mankind.
Rita