What's Up With Sex?
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To which I replied:
St. SteVen said:
For what purpose?
Only for procreation?
You replied with this:
How was I moving the goal posts? I replied to your post.
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PS95
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No.
A female who dresses immodestly knows full well that she is, or do you think women are just too stupid to k now that? She checks the mirror.
Yes, it can stimulate a man who sees her, and that's on her. She caused it by revealing too much. No one is saying he then becomes a perpetrator! Her attire or lack of it, can cause him to sin in his mind-. Adultery in the heart. The world dresses that way. Christian women don't want to cause men to sin. How is it loving to try to entice your friend's husband? Christian women save it for the bedroom.
Men have no cleavage. Are you for real here? You post about gender a lot. What is your deal exactly?
You said you arent gay. Ok- maybe gender confused?
I agree for the most part.
Do you believe God will forgive men who were victims of women's suggestive dress? ("that's on her")
LOL
If cleavage is the issue, should women without cleavage be allowed to go topless?
It seems there is more to it than that.
I'm not gay and I'm not gender confused. If I wrote about racial equality would that make me black? (African American)
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PS95
Well-Known Member
I think I'm 96, but I'm also dyslexic.
People say I look young for my age. Probably because I act like a 3 year old. - LOL
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MA2444
Well-Known Member
How does bad girls make sex bad? They don't. It's a non-issue. You leave those girls alone. It's as simple as that.
Choose wisely she who would be your wife...
There are billions of sexually immorral women on earth. Maybe they enjoy being able to elicit a natural respone out of young males? Big whoop de doo. These women with many partners will be single and unwed when they get older. Will they want a Husband? You bet they will! Will they be a virgin for their husband? Whoops, she;s already been run through so she failed there. WIll she be able to be content with one partner then? Highly doubtful. Men knows these things and it's not what they want in a wife.
It's not that we hold her past against her, those were her choices and I judge no one, but having had 10-20-30-40 different partners makes her not fit for wife material, to me. Too much potential drama in store for those guys who...understand that she was young and needed the money?!
It makes me laugh at those girls on the Maury show who have cheated and they try to justify it somehow and say atuff like, I didn't mean it...it was an accident!
Like she stumbled and fell and came out of of her panties and landed on another man's penis? Ok, it was an accident? Anyone can have an accident but a 4 year long affair is not an accident, it's a choice and a way of life.
The women need accountability. Don't buy into womens excuses. Stay away from those women. Is there even one man on this board who actually did get to marry a virgin?! Naybe, but doubtful. My wife wasnt a virgin when we got married. Weirdest thing though...she said she was a virgin...Surprise surprise. When I asked her about it, you know what she said?
Oh that, that didn't mean anything...(like a Maury girl!)
But that dont make sex bad or wrong. Keep it in your pants man.
Wrangler
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Wrangler
Well-Known Member
Because you are not starting at the beginning. Your OP stated, "In the church we destroy sex with our religious views."
Now, you are changing the subject from us (and our destructive ways) to God (and his purpose for inventing sex). That's moving the goal posts.
St. SteVen said:
How was I moving the goal posts?
I responded to this.
Wrangler said:
God invented sex.
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How was I moving the goal posts?
That was your doing. If you have a point, you should make it. Thanks.
I responded to this.
Wrangler said:
God invented sex.
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I'm getting a fair amount of push-back here. As if the church has NOT sabotaged our sex life.
Christian girls are told that boys are bad. Why?
Because they want sex. Why is sex bad?
Because the Bible says so. Why does the Bible say so?
You shouldn't argue with the Bible, it's God's word.
So God is against sex? !!! ??? That sounds like arguing against God.
Conclusion girls come to: I guess I better stop asking questions
and avoid sex, because it is bad. God said so.
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Christian girls are told that boys are bad. Why?
Because they want sex. Why is sex bad?
Because the Bible says so. Why does the Bible say so?
You shouldn't argue with the Bible, it's God's word.
So God is against sex? !!! ??? That sounds like arguing against God.
Conclusion girls come to: I guess I better stop asking questions
and avoid sex, because it is bad. God said so.
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Ritajanice
Born-Again
Discuss sex?
That’s between a husband ,wife and God.....
Have you discussed this with your wife?
Sounds like you are promoting sex on this forum....to be discussed....no thanks..as per say.
Behold
Well-Known Member
God created sexual relations between the male and female, inside the bounds of marriage.... to be enjoyed, as it creates beautiful intimacy, produces a strong bond between the couple, and usually produces a family.
"a man shall leave mother and father and "CLEAVE" to His wife, and they shall be "One Flesh"
"Cleave"<> "one Flesh" = normal, healthy, God designed, = sexual intimacy.
"a man shall leave mother and father and "CLEAVE" to His wife, and they shall be "One Flesh"
"Cleave"<> "one Flesh" = normal, healthy, God designed, = sexual intimacy.
Ritajanice
Born-Again
Oh my word..it can stimulate a man, you’ve just revealed a lot about yourself.....by revealing to much?..it’s on the woman?
Why , because your stimulated by what you see.........?thank God I ain’t married to you...as if all men are stimulated by what they see , on how a woman reveals her curves.....does that mean I have to sellotape my massive boobs down on my tiny frame, because my boobs will stimulate a man......oh crikey...thank God not all men think like you!!
Really?
No "Birds and Bees" discussion from parents?
No discussion in public? These seems to confirm my suspicions.
When we got married they gave us a copy of this book.
We need a babysitter for our first anniversary celebration.
I was hoping to wake people up to the problem here. Who told you that sex is bad? (the church, right?)
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Ritajanice
Born-Again
What?
Did you actually read my post?
Behold said it beautifully...
Don’t try and get me to talk sex, it ain’t happening......if I ever get married again, it will be discussed between my husband and God.
Not a whole load of strangers on a forum....so intimate and personal...you make it sound you talk to Tom ,dick and Harry about it.....your choice.
Ritajanice
Born-Again
I’m not talking about sex with a husband and wife....show me where I’ve spoken about sex intimately?
I’m talking about his ridiculous post, blaming the woman for not dressing modestly.and him not having any self control....
This is what he said....she caused the man to become stimulated...LOL!
Yes, it can stimulate a man who sees her, and that's on her. She caused it by revealing too much
Would you prefer it if men were unresponsive to female beauty? No interest in women? No interest in marriage? No interest in having a family?
What a wonderful world that would be for you. ??? (assuming you would have been born) What accident of nature would produce offspring?
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