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In this situation there was repentance, as this man was willing to divorce the wife he loves to be right with God. He recognized the sin and wanted to correct it. How many people do you know willing to sacrifice everything for God? Matthew 10:37-39Aaron Lindahl said:Hi lforrest, that's interesting. It sounds like adulterers get an extremely convenient free pass from sin and can continue to divorce and re-marry any amount of times they wish, even though the Bible clearly says that adulterers cannot enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Is that why the vast majority of congregations who condemn and reject gay people who wish to marry each other, accept and welcome into their churches, people who are living in open adultery every day ?
Hi lforrest, yes, I completely agree with you on that. It's so either very strange, or very telling, that the 'church' never so far 'confronts' such issues, and in so doing, is exposed for its utter hypocrisy and double-standards on these issues.lforrest said:In this situation there was repentance, as this man was willing to divorce the wife he loves to be right with God. He recognized the sin and wanted to correct it. How many people do you know willing to sacrifice everything for God? Matthew 10:37-39
What your describing is adulterers who are unrepentant. The church should confront these sinners in the hope they will repent.
Hi Wormwood, 6,000 years is not even a blink of an eye compared to 2.6 million years ago when the earliest stone tools were created by humans, and all religion was based upon a mother goddess.. The Early Stone Age in Africa is equivalent to what is called the Lower Paleolithic in Europe and Asia. That said, I've already shared with you more than enough on this particular history regarding souls that God created as 'homosexual'. I find it extremely disconcerting that you don't want to discuss or address too deeply the fact of all the gay people who were imprisoned, tortured, beaten... or burned alive in public forums or squares in the past or right now.. resulting from the 'teachings' that many conservative people approve of, which at their end-point, eventually demonize and dehumanize people and souls who are born 'gay'.., by self-professed 'Christians', who used particular verses from the Bible to justify such demonic hatred and murder, just as ISIS, the Taliban, and Al Qaeda do within the Muslim faith now. Why is that? Does it make you uncomfortable to discuss such issues? I totally realize that 'you' disavow and disapprove of such things, but why do you not want to dwell upon too deeply or discuss about all the many souls of humans who were 'gay' that were beaten, imprisoned, tortured, and burned alive by 'Christians' who used a particular verse or a few verses from the Bible to justify such brutality and murder? Do you want to sweep all such uncomfortable history and evil under the proverbial rug and not address it?Wormwood said:I don't think my comments are in any way an act of force to make anyone believe anything. I just think that we 6,000 years of history between God and his people showing no acceptance of homosexuality is telling. Can you point me to a document that shows the early church accepted homosexuality and gay marriage? This is news to me.
Mainline protestants have also, in large part, given up on the authority of the Scriptures and have declined by 60% in attendance over the past 75 years.
This argument is meaningless. I wont go into the corrupt politics and such surrounding these issues, but the fact is that things like the Inquisition and mistreatment of the Jews were often sporadic events led by particular individuals and were not reflective of the teaching of the church throughout history. The view that homosexuality is sin has been the view of Christians throughout all of church history.
Gotta run. Will try to respond to the rest later.
ROFL. This really cracked me up. You really believe that? This is called cherry picking scripture. Continue in mortal sin and you will not be in heaven.ATP said:Neither the present nor the future can separate us from God (Rom 8:38-39) / All Sins are Covered (Col 2:13-15) / An inheritance that can never perish, spoil or fade (1 Peter 1:4)
Aaron, you are allowing common sense and scripture to fly over your head in your unnatural pursuit of justifying a mortal sin. You are guilty in your OP of using misdirection. ''Homosexuality is not that bad because we all do X and Y as Christians''. That is a weak tactic that will not hold water when you on your knees before God in a session of self judgment.Aaron Lindahl said:Matthew 7 - "Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you."
The Christians who repeatedly use their measure and judgment to attack, condemn, persecute, and reject gay people with are now being measured and judged by their same standards, and are found to have fallen far short, and are shown to be full of religious hypocrisy. They have been found to be exactly as the people in Matthew 23:28 describe them. Since they took it upon themselves to judge and measure others in clear defiance of what the Bible teaches 'not' to do, they have thus brought the same judgment back upon themselves as the Bible says will happen in such situations.
Now, here are my questions to every Christian who repeatedly commits the sin listed above:
Where in the Bible does it say it's okay to repeatedly and unrepentantly ignore and disobey the teachings from Paul in 1 Corinthians 14:34-35 and in 1 Timothy 2:11-12 as most Christians do today?
Hi King, we'll just have to agree to disagree that gay people are not being beaten, imprisoned, murdered, and burned alive right as I type this.KingJ said:ROFL. This really cracked me up. You really believe that? This is called cherry picking scripture. Continue in mortal sin and you will not be in heaven.
An earlier post of yours cracked me up too. ''God is love'' = we cannot judge. YES, God IS love. God LOVES EVEN the devil ....and for ALL eternity. BUT yet the devil...however....will not be with Him, will he. God loves the wicked SO MUCH that he respects their decision to HATE HIM. When we LOVE what He HATES....we HATE HIM. So telling / encouraging others to continue in their mortal sins is rather ingenious wouldn't you say? You need to tread cautiously you just may be guilty of being a false prophet / enemy. Prov 27:6 Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.
Aaron, you are allowing common sense and scripture to fly over your head in your unnatural pursuit of justifying a mortal sin. You are guilty in your OP of using misdirection. ''Homosexuality is not that bad because we all do X and Y as Christians''. That is a weak tactic that will not hold water when you on your knees before God in a session of self judgment.
Sure adultery is evil and Christians should not do it. The faithful party, the kids involved and the family are all terribly affected. It is a wicked act. A classic case of juicy apple with worms in it. That is why God ordained OT that the prophets and wise elders judge and oversee the stoning of adulterers.
Now...your attempt to compare that mortal sin to the mortal sin of homosexuality is laughable. Homosexuality would be on par with an adulterer marrying and committing adultery daily. The problem with continuing in mortal sin...is that NOBODY, not ourselves and not God trust the repentance thereof. If ONLY we would be honest in self judgment we would escape God's wrath 1 Cor 11:31. Ignoring the conviction of the Holy Spirit, OT scripture and common sense (+ and -) ....requires extreme defiance / deceitfulness from us / making us never truly pass a session of self judgment before God in fear and trembling Phil 2:12 Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed--not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence--continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling.
As for your ''do not judge''. You are conveniently ignoring much other scripture on judgment. Proper exegesis of Matt 7 reveals clearly that it is referring to condemning others. There is much more powerful scripture rebuking us from doing such. But as for the judgment of discernment and tough love we have...the best is probably Pauls crystal clear instructions to us in 1 Cor 5.
1 Cor 5:10 not at all meaning the people of this world who are immoral, or the greedy and swindlers, or idolaters. In that case you would have to leave this world. = we do not judge / condemn / avoid company altogether with the unsaved (bar casting pearl before swine).
But for the saved / professed to be saved and know scripture:
11 But now I am writing to you that you must not associate with anyone who claims to be a brother or sister[c] but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or slanderer, a drunkard or swindler. Do not even eat with such people.
12 What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside? 13 God will judge those outside. “Expel the wicked person from among you.
If anyone calls themselves a Christian and an active homosexual, we are to correct them with tough love. Tough love is STILL love. Giving them kisses and helping with excuses is what an ENEMY would do. Prov27:6.
Talking about hatred for homosexuals and how they are murdered is also misdirection by you. Jesus loves everyone and ALL scripture is against murder / any violent acts.
Yawn. Is there anyone on this planet that does not know John 3:16?? / Matt 5:44 and ''he who is without sin cast the first stone'. Hence anyone with half a working brain knows that a Christian mistreating anyone is a Christian's behind.Aaron Lindahl said:Hi lforrest, yes, I completely agree with you on that. It's so either very strange, or very telling, that the 'church' never so far 'confronts' such issues, and in so doing, is exposed for its utter hypocrisy and double-standards on these issues.
Hi Wormwood, 6,000 years is not even a blink of an eye compared to 2.6 million years ago when the earliest stone tools were created by humans, and all religion was based upon a mother goddess.. The Early Stone Age in Africa is equivalent to what is called the Lower Paleolithic in Europe and Asia. That said, I've already shared with you more than enough on this particular history regarding souls that God created as 'homosexual'. I find it extremely disconcerting that you don't want to discuss or address too deeply the fact of all the gay people who were imprisoned, tortured, beaten... or burned alive in public forums or squares in the past or right now.. resulting from the 'teachings' that many conservative people approve of, which at their end-point, eventually demonize and dehumanize people and souls who are born 'gay'.., by self-professed 'Christians', who used particular verses from the Bible to justify such demonic hatred and murder, just as ISIS, the Taliban, and Al Qaeda do within the Muslim faith now. Why is that? Does it make you uncomfortable to discuss such issues? I totally realize that 'you' disavow and disapprove of such things, but why do you not want to dwell upon too deeply or discuss about all the many souls of humans who were 'gay' that were beaten, imprisoned, tortured, and burned alive by 'Christians' who used a particular verse or a few verses from the Bible to justify such brutality and murder? Do you want to sweep all such uncomfortable history and evil under the proverbial rug and not address it?
KingJ said:Yawn. Is there anyone on this planet that does not know John 3:16?? / Matt 5:44 and ''he who is without sin cast the first stone'. Hence anyone with half a working brain knows that a Christian mistreating anyone is a Christian's behind.
The same cannot be said for Islam though. Now you dare to compare Christianity to Islam. Really?
I am failing to see the point here Aaron. We have 6,000 years of recorded history of God in covenant relationship with humanity. All the evidence says that those people ALL viewed homosexuality (of any type) as an abomination based on their Scriptures. I think that is more than telling. Are you retracting your claim that the early church practiced homosexual marriages? Im still waiting for that source.Hi Wormwood, 6,000 years is not even a blink of an eye compared to 2.6 million years ago when the earliest stone tools were created by humans, and all religion was based upon a mother goddess
Aaron, I thought I addressed this issue thoroughly in a previous post. I will say it again that all such actions are horrible and should be denounced as unChristlike by all Christians. There is no excuse for such behavior. I think the Scriptures are clear that Christians are to show love to everyone, just as Christ taught. It does not make me uncomfortable to say these things in the least. I would never condone such behavior towards others. However, as I clearly explained before, the mistreatment of a people does not automatically make their views right. For instance, the inquisition primarily targeted the Cathars. Although I would claim that those leading the inquisition were anything but Christian (likely more politically driven), it still was a complete atrocity that was done in the name of Christ. Yet, just because the Cathars were unjustly treated does not make Duelism correct. Just because those who claimed the name of Christ mistreated the Cathars, Jews, Muslims, homosexuals and others during periods of history does not mean that the Bible is wrong and the Koran is right. Does this make sense? So let me emphasize the best way I know how... I think it is a horrific tragedy that person who claims to be a Christian would burn a homosexual alive at a stake, or commit any of the other abusive acts you shared in your post. All such actions are unbecoming of a Christian.I find it extremely disconcerting that you don't want to discuss or address too deeply the fact of all the gay people who were imprisoned, tortured, beaten... or burned alive in public forums or squares in the past or right now.. resulting from the 'teachings' that many conservative people approve of, which at their end-point, eventually demonize and dehumanize people and souls who are born 'gay'.., by self-professed 'Christians', who used particular verses from the Bible to justify such demonic hatred and murder, just as ISIS, the Taliban, and Al Qaeda do within the Muslim faith now. Why is that? Does it make you uncomfortable to discuss such issues? I totally realize that 'you' disavow and disapprove of such things, but why do you not want to dwell upon too deeply or discuss about all the many souls of humans who were 'gay' that were beaten, imprisoned, tortured, and burned alive by 'Christians' who used a particular verse or a few verses from the Bible to justify such brutality and murder? Do you want to sweep all such uncomfortable history and evil under the proverbial rug and not address it?
Hi Wormwood, I've already gone into great detail on the history of same-sex marriage where it is mentioned many times by Classical authors before it was declared illegal in 342. As well, the Bible in its current form did not exist during those first 300 years of Christianity, a time span longer than our own nation has even existed.Wormwood said:I am failing to see the point here Aaron. We have 6,000 years of recorded history of God in covenant relationship with humanity. All the evidence says that those people ALL viewed homosexuality (of any type) as an abomination based on their Scriptures. I think that is more than telling. Are you retracting your claim that the early church practiced homosexual marriages? Im still waiting for that source.
Aaron, I thought I addressed this issue thoroughly in a previous post. I will say it again that all such actions are horrible and should be denounced as unChristlike by all Christians. There is no excuse for such behavior. I think the Scriptures are clear that Christians are to show love to everyone, just as Christ taught. It does not make me uncomfortable to say these things in the least. I would never condone such behavior towards others. However, as I clearly explained before, the mistreatment of a people does not automatically make their views right. For instance, the inquisition primarily targeted the Cathars. Although I would claim that those leading the inquisition were anything but Christian (likely more politically driven), it still was a complete atrocity that was done in the name of Christ. Yet, just because the Cathars were unjustly treated does not make Duelism correct. Just because those who claimed the name of Christ mistreated the Cathars, Jews, Muslims, homosexuals and others during periods of history does not mean that the Bible is wrong and the Koran is right. Does this make sense? So let me emphasize the best way I know how... I think it is a horrific tragedy that person who claims to be a Christian would burn a homosexual alive at a stake, or commit any of the other abusive acts you shared in your post. All such actions are unbecoming of a Christian.
Hi Wormwood, I rather doubt it would take 305 years for the Church to finally formally address such an important issue, unless it was very different for gay Christians during the preceding 3 centuries.Wormwood said:Aaron, I have noticed you are copying and pasting the same material on dozens of websites. If you want to engage in a discussion, fine. You need to stop copying and pasting stuff from other websites across a host of platforms. To me, this shows that you are on an agenda and are not really interested in dialogue. I also find it alarming how you are misrepresenting history in these continual copy & paste jobs across all of these sites.
Oh okay, that's interesting, thanks for answering me! :)Wormwood said:Tess,
I think there are a couple of reasons, and they are good ones. First, not all sin is the same. The Bible makes it clear that some sins are more perverse than others. Think about it: If someone takes your kid's lunch money, you get mad. If someone beats your kid to a bloody pulp, you get furious. If someone murders your kid...well, you get the idea. Just because all sin causes us to fall short of God's glory does not mean all sin is equal. This is a common and terrible perception. If we see variations in sin, why would we think God does not? After all, God is the one who designated various punishments for different sins in the OT. Clearly there is variation. In my estimation, both the OT and NT indicate that sexual sins are among the most perverse. This includes both heterosexual sins as well as homosexual ones.
Second, the issues such as homosexuality and abortion are hot-button issues in our culture because there are movements in our culture that want to normalize and accept these behaviors. Thus, I find it perfectly logical that this should be an issue that causes more angst and frustration. So, yes, I agree with you that there are also cultural reasons why these issues have greater significance. I mean, if there was a movement in America that was pushing to show pornography on NBC, and it was being accepted by national networks....the sin of these film makers and network producers would have greater significance, and rightly so.
In sum, some sins have greater significance in the Bible (and sexual sins are among them), and our cultural situation is the reason why this issue is shown greater significance. It has nothing to do with people picking a sin out of the thin blue air in an act of Phariseeism as it is often portrayed.
Hi TessTess said:I think it is clear that the differences of opinion here are not going to be changed.
But as we all know, God loves us all, and if we accept Jesus we are saved, so I don't think heated debate is necessary.
I'm Going back to the original question of the post because I found it interesting - why do we think it is that Churches and Christians tend to place more 'significance' lets say on certain sins more so than others? Do we think it's just for cultural reasons?
You seem to have no interest in actually tackling this subject properly, the irony. I propose you read and study scripture more. Anyone can type in Google ''Christianity is old fashioned'' or ''Christianity approves of homosexuality''' or '''we have the bible wrong for many centuries, homosexuals will be in heaven''. You are simply choosing to formulate your belief system on biased / already prejudiced advice from false prophets.Aaron Lindahl said:Hi King, if this topic makes you feel tired or bored, perhaps another discussion thread would be more exciting for you to read about.
That said, here is a link to another discussion on here in which Christianity at the time behaved exactly like certain Muslim fanatics do today: http://www.christianityboard.com/topic/21040-what-happens-when-a-few-fanatics-force-their-beliefs-on-others/
Hi King, we'll just have to respectfully agree to disagree on this issue. It's obvious you do not agree, and since it would be un-Christian to argue merely for argument's sake when neither person is going to agree with the other, I don't believe there is anything further for you and I to discuss. No one has to agree with me, and just the same, I am not required to agree with you.KingJ said:Every argument here 'for homosexuality' is weak and easily debunkable as poo. Is there one that you actually believe and want to discuss?
The church didn't have councils prior to the 300's because Christianity was not approved by the Roman empire prior to the Edict of Milan in 313. If people are killing you for your faith, the last thing you want to do is have a big formal meeting with all the leadership....Hi Wormwood, I rather doubt it would take 305 years for the Church to finally formally address such an important issue, unless it was very different for gay Christians during the preceding 3 centuries.
Yes, but when you are copying and pasting the exact same material and phrases over dozens of websites, it becomes clear you are pushing an agenda...not engaging in an open dialogue. Especially when these quotes are often taken out of context. For instance:That said, 'copying & pasting' is merely a technology used to easily transfer information from one place to another, no different than using a function within Word software. It does not invalidate the information. Much of it are my own words, and none of it is copy-righted. When it's written by someone else, you'll notice I include the author's name.
This quote has nothing to do with lying about history or misleading people about actual events that have happened in the past (such as the church's view on homosexuality as you infer). This quote is in reference to the Apostle Paul going to Jerusalem and having Timothy circumcised so that he could gain an audience with the Jewish people. Chrysostom is saying that while Paul's actions seem deceptive, they were really it was an act of good management in order to use whatever resources he had to be able to speak to these people. The way you presented this quote is horribly misleading and blatently false. If you really have studied Classical church history for over 20 years than you know very well what the context of this quote was and you are deliberately misleading people to make it sound as though this quote is about misleading people about the views of the early church, particularly regarding homosexuality. Shame on you.John Chrysostom (5th century theologian and bishop to emperor Constantine)
"For great is the value of deceit, provided it be not introduced with a mischievous intention. In fact action of this kind ought not to be called deceit, but rather a kind of good management, cleverness and skill, capable of finding out ways where resources fail, and making up for the defects of the mind ...And often it is necessary to deceive, and to do the greatest benefits by means of this device, whereas he who has gone by a straight course has done great mischief to the person whom he has not deceived." -Treatise on the Priesthood, book 1
If you were to do 5 min of research on this quote, you will learn that Eusebius likely didn't write this, but that it was added by a later writer...and even if he did, this quote is criticizing something PLATO TAUGHT in his dialogue with Cleinius in his work "Laws." Again, this is out of context and has nothing to do with Eusebius encouraging lying."It will sometimes be necessary to use falsehood for the benefit of those who need such a mode of treatment."
Hi Wormwood. Please show me exactly where I 'claimed' I was here only for answers. I never said anything of the sort. The original question on this post is meant to highlight the fact that many churches ignore the sin of adultery and do not follow the teachings on women, and yet use the same verse on adultery to clobber gay people with. It says on my profile explicitly that I came here to share Scripture and history that is not often seen. I am a born again Christian, born in blood, and have shared with you the denomination of the congregation I attend, which is the Evangelical Lutheran Church of America, which has 4 million members and 10,000 congregations. Are you insinuating that all my fellow congregants are not Christian as well?Wormwood said:You claim to be someone who is wanting honest answers and truthful discussion, but by the looks of things you are intent on spreading large amounts of false information in as many venues as possible without regard to context of the accuracy of the things you are citing. This is very troubling and quite unbecoming of one who claims to be a Christian, Aaron.
And that bud is exactly why you should be worried. It is the end times is it not?Aaron Lindahl said:Hi King, we'll just have to respectfully agree to disagree on this issue. It's obvious you do not agree, and since it would be un-Christian to argue merely for argument's sake when neither person is going to agree with the other, I don't believe there is anything further for you and I to discuss. No one has to agree with me, and just the same, I am not required to agree with you.
I feel I need to repeat this again: It is not just 'me' who believes this to be the truth. These are the many entire denominations consisting of tens of thousands of congregations, and many millions of Christians, who agree with what I share with you concerning this subject: