Why does God save some and let others die?

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Why?

Is God really saving you from tragedy, while allowing others to suffer and die?

Is it even appropriate to announce to the world that God saved you from a plane crash or shipwreck, while failing to acknowledge that others were not as blessed as you believe yourself to be?

I think God gives everyone an allotted time on Earth in order for us to be justified and sanctified. Seems to me that there really are no narrow escapes from death if God is truly sovereign and we should be treating these incidents that appear to be narrow escapes as focus points in our lives to get us back on the road to sanctification rather than a time to praise God at the expense of others. Fact is, we should already be praising Him.
 

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There can be no other explanation as to why we were able to go threw two lanes of traffic with out the help of God. NO way and I give glory unto God for it.
Ps 91:12
12 They shall bear thee up in their hands, lest thou dash thy foot against a stone.
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Luke 4:10-11
10 For it is written, He shall give his angels charge over thee, to keep thee:
11 And in their hands they shall bear thee up, lest at any time thou dash thy foot against a stone.
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We do not ever do foolish things to tempt God claiming that God will come to our rescue, but not even a sparrow falls to the ground without God knowing it and allowing it.

These are called testimonies not boasting~
 

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Faithful - your thread inspired mine, but I am not directing it to you specifically. I just tend to think that our death has been determined, which is admittedly out of line with much of my free will ideas about God and humanity
 

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If you believe that your life expectancy is determined by God, which I also believe that when it is our time, it is our time. But doesn't that mean that if you come into a situation that would normally take your life before your time, that God may have the angels to intervene?
 

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Well, that goes back to the OP - why you? Or why me? And not others that are allowed to suffer and die? My opinion is that God has determined all of our deaths and therefore, close calls only seem close calls from our perspective. We are not called to praise God for saving us at the expense of our neighbor - perhaps we are called to reach out to the families of the people who were killed?
 

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It is funny to think how the righteous want to die and go be with the Lord whilst the evil want to hold onto this life as much as they can. A righteous person is kept living because God is using them. The evil, God gives them as much time as He can without showing partiality. God had the angels kicked out of heaven for a level of intent. When a human reaches that same level, God cannot keep them alive any longer lest He show preference to them. God shows preference to nobody. God has to sadly give them over to death. God is saddened by the fallen angels and all the evil that reject Him. They choose death. This is proof that we have free will. If we didn't, God would take us all to heaven...the irony of Calvinism.

As for suffering, Psalms 34:17 The righteous cry out, and the LORD hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles. John 9:31 We know that God does not listen to sinners. He listens to the godly person who does his will.
 

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aspen2 said:
Why?

Is God really saving you from tragedy, while allowing others to suffer and die?

Is it even appropriate to announce to the world that God saved you from a plane crash or shipwreck, while failing to acknowledge that others were not as blessed as you believe yourself to be?

I think God gives everyone an allotted time on Earth in order for us to be justified and sanctified. Seems to me that there really are no narrow escapes from death if God is truly sovereign and we should be treating these incidents that appear to be narrow escapes as focus points in our lives to get us back on the road to sanctification rather than a time to praise God at the expense of others. Fact is, we should already be praising Him.
aspen2 said:
Why?

Is God really saving you from tragedy, while allowing others to suffer and die?

Is it even appropriate to announce to the world that God saved you from a plane crash or shipwreck, while failing to acknowledge that others were not as blessed as you believe yourself to be?

I think God gives everyone an allotted time on Earth in order for us to be justified and sanctified. Seems to me that there really are no narrow escapes from death if God is truly sovereign and we should be treating these incidents that appear to be narrow escapes as focus points in our lives to get us back on the road to sanctification rather than a time to praise God at the expense of others. Fact is, we should already be praising Him.
I think you're onto something. :)
 

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KingJ said:
It is funny to think how the righteous want to die and go be with the Lord whilst the evil want to hold onto this life as much as they can. A righteous person is kept living because God is using them. The evil, God gives them as much time as He can without showing partiality. God had the angels kicked out of heaven for a level of intent. When a human reaches that same level, God cannot keep them alive any longer lest He show preference to them. God shows preference to nobody. God has to sadly give them over to death. God is saddened by the fallen angels and all the evil that reject Him. They choose death. This is proof that we have free will. If we didn't, God would take us all to heaven...the irony of Calvinism.

As for suffering, Psalms 34:17 The righteous cry out, and the LORD hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles. John 9:31 We know that God does not listen to sinners. He listens to the godly person who does his will.
Hi KingJ
I have to question you as to you saying that the righteous want to go to be with the Lord... Do they? Then why when man gets sick or a disease or harmed do they run to the physicians or the medicine cabinet to remain amongst those above ground?

God is no respecter of persons that is true, but He loaths sin for He knows it's damage and has warned us that sin brings death physically, emotionally, and spiritually. If life was not supposed to be a blessing to enjoy, then why did Christ die so that we could have eternal life?

But who would want to live eternally in poverty, lack, hatred, sickness, war, disease, etc... Sin brings chaos, and disorder in the world and there can be no peace. God made the earth to be inhabited. He made it so beautiful for us to enjoy..

The purpose of their being a people of God is for them to keep the Word alive in the earth so that we remain our brother's keeper. God needs people to work for Him to keep the peace. When we work for God we are useful to Him, but even Moses at 120 years was full of life and just went to sleep. God is able to keep us alive as long as we are productive for Him.
But sin has taken it's toll in this earth. We may be spiritually reborn, but our bodies are still frail and susceptible to disease, or poisoned by sorcery(pharmacy,medications,chemicals) or man made chemicals in everything we use and we still suffer for the sins we commit.

aspen2 said:
Well, that goes back to the OP - why you? Or why me? And not others that are allowed to suffer and die? My opinion is that God has determined all of our deaths and therefore, close calls only seem close calls from our perspective. We are not called to praise God for saving us at the expense of our neighbor - perhaps we are called to reach out to the families of the people who were killed?
I see what you are saying I do say many times when someone survives a tragedy that it must not have been their time. I haven't heard of anyone praising God for sparing them at the expense of another and I would certainly not. I have heard them say Why me?

In fact I often wonder why this, and I am aware of how selfish and bad this sounds: There is one man trapped and they send 5 men to rescue the one and 3 die in the process, but they saved the ONE and everyone is ecstatic that they were able to save him. That doesn't make any sense to me, but I guess that is what is humanely correct to do, just doesn't make any sense at the sum of it. I am sure that if I were put in the position to rescue someone physically, I would do the same thing because we don't know that we shall die in the process we just understand that someone needs our help and we would want them to do the same for us.

I believe and the Bible teaches that tragedies are to awaken sinful man to the judgment of God for their accumulated ungodly ways towards one another. It is a shame that some must die in them, but it is to hopefully make the survivors look up and repent and remember there is a GOD. I did not know God that day, yet I did give credit to God for it because there is no way that I could have guided that car at that speed through all those cars without harming a soul or damaging anything. No way!! So that too could have been a wake up to me but I did nothing more than think it as a miracle of God... yet it was till 2002 before I gave my heart to God and received the Spirit.

Acts 17:24-28
24 God that made the world and all things therein, seeing that he is Lord of heaven and earth, dwelleth not in temples made with hands;

25 Neither is worshipped with men's hands, as though he needed any thing, seeing he giveth to all life, and breath, and all things;

26 And hath made of one blood all nations of men for to dwell on all the face of the earth, and hath determined the times before appointed, and the bounds of their habitation;

27 That they should seek the Lord, if haply they might feel after him, and find him, though he be not far from every one of us:

28 For in him we live, and move, and have our being; as certain also of your own poets have said, For we are also his offspring.
KJV
 

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God's ways are always equal. He has NO favourites and He judges impartially. On top of that He tells us exactly what to do in order to receive His life and favour.
 

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aspen2 said:
Well, that goes back to the OP - why you? Or why me? And not others that are allowed to suffer and die? My opinion is that God has determined all of our deaths and therefore, close calls only seem close calls from our perspective. We are not called to praise God for saving us at the expense of our neighbor - perhaps we are called to reach out to the families of the people who were killed?
People are allowed to suffer and die because that is what God knew would happen when man fell. He allowed it when He allowed His creation to have what some refer to as free will. I strongly disagree with the idea that He is in control of everything that goes on. He said "thou shall not", in the commandments. People can obey or disobey. The same went for Adam and Eve. They were not 'allowed' by God to eat of the tree. They ate anyway. He, being "in charge", therefore had authority to administer consequences. God is not in control. He is in charge. He has foreknowledge of all things. Therefore He knows the times and seasons. This does not mean that He planned or caused the times and seasons mentioned in Eccl. He knows when a sparrow falls from the sky. This does not mean He killed the sparrow.

I shudder when the survivors of catastrophes declare that God saved them. This implies that God forsook those who did not survive.

To paraphrase a common quote...*%$ (stuff) happens. This is the world we live in. Will God intervene from time to time? For sure. I have no doubt. But this is the exception, not the rule. He is not a control freak. Acts 17:26 is about the general population of nations, not individual people.
There is a popular worship song that states He tells every lightning bolt where it should land. What does this message tell those who have lost loved ones to lightning strikes? What does this kind of thinking say about God?

There was a popular secular song years ago, saying...." O where O where can my baby be? The Lord took her away from me" This is a reflection of what the world hears from the church? If so, to our shame!

On another thread I might repeat the even worse part of that song. .." She's gone to heaven so I got to be good so I can see my baby when I leave this world"... Where did the author get these ideas?
 

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People are allowed to suffer and die because that is what God knew would happen when man fell. He allowed it when He allowed His creation to have what some refer to as free will. I strongly disagree with the idea that He is in control of everything that goes on. He said "thou shall not", in the commandments. People can obey or disobey. The same went for Adam and Eve. They were not 'allowed' by God to eat of the tree. They ate anyway. He, being "in charge", therefore had authority to administer consequences. God is not in control. He is in charge. He has foreknowledge of all things. Therefore He knows the times and seasons. This does not mean that He planned or caused the times and seasons mentioned in Eccl. He knows when a sparrow falls from the sky. This does not mean He killed the sparrow.

I shudder when the survivors of catastrophes declare that God saved them. This implies that God forsook those who did not survive.

To paraphrase a common quote...*%$ (stuff) happens. This is the world we live in. Will God intervene from time to time? For sure. I have no doubt. But this is the exception, not the rule. He is not a control freak. Acts 17:26 is about the general population of nations, not individual people.
There is a popular worship song that states He tells every lightning bolt where it should land. What does this message tell those who have lost loved ones to lightning strikes? What does this kind of thinking say about God?

There was a popular secular song years ago, saying...." O where O where can my baby be? The Lord took her away from me" This is a reflection of what the world hears from the church? If so, to our shame!

On another thread I might repeat the even worse part of that song. .." She's gone to heaven so I got to be good so I can see my baby when I leave this world"... Where did the author get these ideas?
If some still believe they go to Heaven when they die, I can give them three scriptures they need to change.
 

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domenic said:
If some still believe they go to Heaven when they die, I can give them three scriptures they need to change.
I assume you are of the persuasion that we are to reign on earth forever. I would not disagree. However, this is in regards to a new heaven and a new earth. In the meantime, we are assured that to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. Some passages in regards to the finality of death, I do not have a problem with. But I do believe that this is referring to the second death, not the first one. On another thread, I asked your opinion concerning Math.10:28. I will search around and see if you replied to this passage. In it, Jesus says that it is possible for the body to die but not the soul. However, in the case of the lost, both are eventually destroyed in Gehenna ( the lake of fire). We do need to allow for other passages that speak of mental anguish (torment), and weeping and gnashing of teeth. The second death does not occur until after the 1000 yr. reign of Christ.
 

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afaithfulone4u said:
Hi KingJ
1. I have to question you as to you saying that the righteous want to go to be with the Lord... Do they? 2. Then why when man gets sick or a disease or harmed do they run to the physicians or the medicine cabinet to remain amongst those above ground?

God is no respecter of persons that is true, but He loaths sin for He knows it's damage and has warned us that sin brings death physically, emotionally, and spiritually. 3. If life was not supposed to be a blessing to enjoy, then why did Christ die so that we could have eternal life?

But who would want to live eternally in poverty, lack, hatred, sickness, war, disease, etc... Sin brings chaos, and disorder in the world and there can be no peace. 4. God made the earth to be inhabited. He made it so beautiful for us to enjoy..

5. The purpose of their being a people of God is for them to keep the Word alive in the earth so that we remain our brother's keeper. God needs people to work for Him to keep the peace. When we work for God we are useful to Him, but even Moses at 120 years was full of life and just went to sleep. God is able to keep us alive as long as we are productive for Him.
But sin has taken it's toll in this earth. We may be spiritually reborn, but our bodies are still frail and susceptible to disease, or poisoned by sorcery(pharmacy,medications,chemicals) or man made chemicals in everything we use and we still suffer for the sins we commit.
1. Phil 1:21
2. So that we don't tempt God.
3. Jesus died so we could inherit eternal life with God...not so that we could enjoy the current world.
4. Indeed, everything God made is good. But as reborn Christians we long for more.
5. Nobodies salvation is on our head. As good Christians we do desire to be our brothers keeper, but we are not. If we fail, God replaces us.

I respect a number of your posts brother, but you and I will never see to eye on an number of issues until you agree with me ^_^ :p .
 

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It is funny to think how the righteous want to die and go be with the Lord whilst the evil want to hold onto this life as much as they can. A righteous person is kept living because God is using them. The evil, God gives them as much time as He can without showing partiality. God had the angels kicked out of heaven for a level of intent. When a human reaches that same level, God cannot keep them alive any longer lest He show preference to them. God shows preference to nobody. God has to sadly give them over to death. God is saddened by the fallen angels and all the evil that reject Him. They choose death. This is proof that we have free will. If we didn't, God would take us all to heaven...the irony of Calvinism.

As for suffering, Psalms 34:17 The righteous cry out, and the LORD hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles. John 9:31 We know that God does not listen to sinners. He listens to the godly person who does his will.

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to be free one has to be in christ other wise a person only has their selfish will .. and that selfish will always rejects Gods will for their lives .. and satan easly manipulates a selfish will ...

only the truth of Christ sets one free.. and that is something our selfish will cant choose to have .a selfish will can only do one thing and that is to reject a free will in christ

that is why God must choose and also why we have no right to boast about being christian because we had nothing to do with it..






Ephesians 2:8-9
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8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
9 Not of works, lest any man should boast.
 

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horsecamp said:
to be free one has to be in christ other wise a person only has their selfish will .. and that selfish will always rejects Gods will for their lives .. and satan easly manipulates a selfish will ...

only the truth of Christ sets one free.. and that is something our selfish will cant choose to have .a selfish will can only do one thing and that is to reject a free will in christ

that is why God must choose and also why we have no right to boast about being christian because we had nothing to do with it..

Ephesians 2:8-9

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8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
9 Not of works, lest any man should boast.
Hi there. Is God good or evil? Is God partial or impartial? A God that sends babies to hell is evil, correct? A God that is omniscient and creates some from a lump of dishonour for hell and others from a lump of honour for heaven, is partial, correct? God created us all from the same lump. We choose to be vessels of honour or dishonour as ....God is good!!! Psalms 136:1 and God is impartial Acts 10:34.

Creator + omniscient + sovereign + good + impartial = 100% Free will for all.

Creator + omniscient + sovereign + evil + partial = Calvinism.

Accepting Jesus is 100% OUR doing (free will)!!!!!!!!!

Salvation from our acceptance is 100% God's doing (grace)!!!!!

Think of those in Sheol / Abrahams bosom. There faithfulness / good heart got them there and not on the other side of hell 'hades'. But they were NOT in heaven. Only when Jesus died were they able to go to paradise. We all have 100% free will and equal opportunity to accept or reject Jesus as God IS IMPARTIAL AND GOOD!!

Regarding our selfish will, we choose to be selfish. We choose to reject God. Hence Psalms 51:17 My sacrifice, O God, is a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart you, God, will not despise.

Just chew on it for a while brother. Please try see that your post implies God is partial and evil.
 

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aspen2 said:
Why?

Is God really saving you from tragedy, while allowing others to suffer and die?

Is it even appropriate to announce to the world that God saved you from a plane crash or shipwreck, while failing to acknowledge that others were not as blessed as you believe yourself to be?

I think God gives everyone an allotted time on Earth in order for us to be justified and sanctified. Seems to me that there really are no narrow escapes from death if God is truly sovereign and we should be treating these incidents that appear to be narrow escapes as focus points in our lives to get us back on the road to sanctification rather than a time to praise God at the expense of others. Fact is, we should already be praising Him.
God has given everyone allotted time, 120 years.
As for why some die and others don't,, You can guantee it isn't down to God, He would have told those who died in a plane chrash, Not to go, But because they are dull of hearing, They didn't listen.
The Bible says God lights everyone, The Greek meaning for, "Lights," Jn 1: 4, &v9. Is Enlightens spiritually, And as man is a spirit who has a soul and lives in a body, God speaks to our spirit.
How may time do you hear pelpe who aren't Christians say, "I knew I shouldn't have gone", Or something simular.

God does NOT take people through accidents or sicknesses., That is eith down to man, mechanichel failier or the god of this world..The devil.
 

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To get back to the OP topic. I recently had an incident where I was driving, had cruise on, and I was slouched in my seat. It was dark and a car in the other lance heading the opposite direction suddenly collided with something and went off into the ditch. This happened just about 20 feet before we would have passed eachother. Had they not been there I would have hit a deer head on, 70 mph, and would have likey bit it because I would have slid under my seatbelt and crumpled under the dash, gone off the road and rolled. But I saw the impact, sat up, hit the brakes and smoothly pulled over to the side of the road..... I'm just sayn.....
 

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So, God caused someone else to crash in your stead. I think Aspen is going to have a few words for you and I am probably going to agree with him :D.
 

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The other person just lost a headlight and a fender.... I would have lost a lot more than that..... Like not be here!

Okay, lets say you saw someone down on their luck one day and you led them to Faith, so the next day they went to church and got saved.... Years down the road they become one of the greatest teachers of the Word in the world. Millions Saved!! Do you follow so far?? Good. Lets do this over again, same day, same person but this time you chose to walk on buy. That night, out of depression, they overdosed or something to that extent..... Why, because you didnt intervene.

My point is, God uses people in many different ways for different reasons. And, we are all interpreting what we think the scriptures mean. Us, meaning everyone on this earth. So, unless you have personally emailed God or called him on the phone one day and He gave you the run down, I would say not a one of us is an authority on the Word. So say what you will, I will undoubtedlly ignore it. Thats why I have faith, so I dont have to plow through all the criticisim. I feel God has big plans for me. So here i am! B)
 
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Who is to say it wasn't God's prerogative to take that person or persons out of this world in the hypothetical tragedy from which you were spared? People give death far too much weight, as through death were the end of everything. God can take who he wants, when he wants.

So what if one or thousands die and you are spared. Give thanks to the Lord but there is no reason to feel guilty over those deaths which are attributed to God's sovereignty.
 
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