#2 - "The Family Secret" - Romans 8:28
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And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose. - Romans 8:28
Anyone who has been raised in a family environment has his or her own share of
family secrets. These little tidbits of reality are usually best kept within the small circle
of family. For some, these family secrets are dark and hidden in the recesses of the mind. For most of us, these secrets are light, spontaneous, perhaps a bit embarrassing, and often downright funny.
Did you know that those of us who have been born into God’s family also have a family secret? There is something that we know that those who are not part of God’s forever family do not know. Our family secret is found in our verse for this week, Romans 8:28.
On numerous occasions along my own Christian pilgrimage, I have climbed up on top of this verse and found refuge and hope in times of confusion or need. There are four factors related to "the family secret" that every believer should know.
The Family Secret is Confidential
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"And WE know..."
Note carefully this plural pronoun we. Yes, we know. This verse is not intended to be understood by the world. To the lost person, these words are folly and even foolishness. They cannot be understood. Why? Because this is our family secret: “We know!” This verse only applies to true believers. Confront existentialists today who seem to see no real purpose in history; they have no hopeful explanation for sudden death, sickness, or various setbacks in life. The Christian comes along and says, "Yes, there is, but it is a family secret . . . 'and we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.'"
Interestingly, the Bible translates our English word know from a Greek word
that means we don’t even have to know experientially here. It is a stated fact; we just know intuitively. We have a family secret within God’s family. It is confidential--but “we know!”
The Family Secret is Constructive
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"things work together for good"
This is one of the most comforting thoughts in all of Scripture: things that
happen in life have a way of working together for our good. They are constructive. As we each look back over our Christian experience, how many events that we may have thought at the time were disastrous actually, in the end, worked out for good? Yes, "things work together" neither by accident nor blind chance. God Himself is behind the scenes in each of our lives.
One Greek word synergia translates this entire phrase in the language of the
New Testament. We get our word synergy by transliterating this ancient word. There
is a constructive and synergistic principle at work in our family secret. This certainly does not mean that everything that happens is good. In fact, many are confronted with things that are bad.
There are financial failings, sicknesses, and disappointments ad infinitum. However, it does mean that God can take our mistakes and messes and work them together for our own good. King David realized this and recorded these poignant words for all posterity: "It is good for me that I have been afflicted, that I may learn Your statutes" (Psalm 119:71). As believers, we have a very special family secret that is confidential and constructive.
The Family Secret is Comprehensive
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"ALL THINGS work together for good"
When I meditate on these words, I am prone to ask myself, “Can I really believe this?” Had the apostle Paul said "some things" or "many things" or even "most things" it would be a bit more palatable. But "all things"? All things may include unfair things. This was certainly true for Joseph who was sold into slavery and later falsely accused of a crime that landed him in an Egyptian prison. All things may include difficult things. This was certainly true of Paul who was shipwrecked at Malta, stoned at Lystra and left for dead, and beaten and berated across the years of his missionary journeys. He knew well, from firsthand experience, what the Holy Spirit led him to write when he penned these words of our family secret.
Yes, all things are what? Working together. For what? Good. For example, I would not like to sit down for a meal and eat a bowl of baking soda. In and of itself, baking soda is distasteful. Nor would I look forward to eating a nice serving of flour. However, put them together, add a few other ingredients, stir them up, put them in the oven, and they turn into biscuits. And I love biscuits! All things, not necessarily in and of themselves, but when worked together in the tapestry of the cross, come out for our good and for God’s glory. This family secret is not only constructive, but it is comprehensive. Yes, all things are working together for our good at this very moment.
The Family Secret is Conditional
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"to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose"
An unofficial poll taken of Sunday-morning church attendees asked them to
quote Romans 8:28. The majority of them left off the first phrase "And we
know." They simply began with the phrase "all things work together for good."
But, interestingly, they also left off the last phrase that states, "to those
who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose."
Our family secret is conditional. It is not a blanket, unconditional promise
for everyone. It is for those who "love God." Those who do not love Him are
generally resentful about certain things that come their way. Only those who
love Him and sense that there is purpose in their lives can understand the
deep truth of Romans 8:28 and say with Job, “Naked I came from my mother’s
womb, and naked shall I return there. The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken
away; blessed be the name of the Lord” (Job 1:21).
Love is something we do. In the Bible, it is always equated with action. Jesus
said, "If you love Me, keep My commandments" (John 14:15). John framed it by
saying, “For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments” (1 John
5:3). Thus, we come to the bottom-line questions: Do we love God? Do we sense
that we are called according to His purpose for our lives? Loving God and
abiding in His will--His purpose--is the condition by which the truth of this
verse comes home to our hearts. As you memorize Romans 8:28 this week,
meditate on the deep reality that God is awake and aware of everything that
comes our way.
He has His own wonderful way of turning our bitterness into blessing. We have that family secret in God’s forever family.
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And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose. - Romans 8:28
Anyone who has been raised in a family environment has his or her own share of
family secrets. These little tidbits of reality are usually best kept within the small circle
of family. For some, these family secrets are dark and hidden in the recesses of the mind. For most of us, these secrets are light, spontaneous, perhaps a bit embarrassing, and often downright funny.
Did you know that those of us who have been born into God’s family also have a family secret? There is something that we know that those who are not part of God’s forever family do not know. Our family secret is found in our verse for this week, Romans 8:28.
On numerous occasions along my own Christian pilgrimage, I have climbed up on top of this verse and found refuge and hope in times of confusion or need. There are four factors related to "the family secret" that every believer should know.
The Family Secret is Confidential
=================================
"And WE know..."
Note carefully this plural pronoun we. Yes, we know. This verse is not intended to be understood by the world. To the lost person, these words are folly and even foolishness. They cannot be understood. Why? Because this is our family secret: “We know!” This verse only applies to true believers. Confront existentialists today who seem to see no real purpose in history; they have no hopeful explanation for sudden death, sickness, or various setbacks in life. The Christian comes along and says, "Yes, there is, but it is a family secret . . . 'and we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.'"
Interestingly, the Bible translates our English word know from a Greek word
that means we don’t even have to know experientially here. It is a stated fact; we just know intuitively. We have a family secret within God’s family. It is confidential--but “we know!”
The Family Secret is Constructive
=================================
"things work together for good"
This is one of the most comforting thoughts in all of Scripture: things that
happen in life have a way of working together for our good. They are constructive. As we each look back over our Christian experience, how many events that we may have thought at the time were disastrous actually, in the end, worked out for good? Yes, "things work together" neither by accident nor blind chance. God Himself is behind the scenes in each of our lives.
One Greek word synergia translates this entire phrase in the language of the
New Testament. We get our word synergy by transliterating this ancient word. There
is a constructive and synergistic principle at work in our family secret. This certainly does not mean that everything that happens is good. In fact, many are confronted with things that are bad.
There are financial failings, sicknesses, and disappointments ad infinitum. However, it does mean that God can take our mistakes and messes and work them together for our own good. King David realized this and recorded these poignant words for all posterity: "It is good for me that I have been afflicted, that I may learn Your statutes" (Psalm 119:71). As believers, we have a very special family secret that is confidential and constructive.
The Family Secret is Comprehensive
==================================
"ALL THINGS work together for good"
When I meditate on these words, I am prone to ask myself, “Can I really believe this?” Had the apostle Paul said "some things" or "many things" or even "most things" it would be a bit more palatable. But "all things"? All things may include unfair things. This was certainly true for Joseph who was sold into slavery and later falsely accused of a crime that landed him in an Egyptian prison. All things may include difficult things. This was certainly true of Paul who was shipwrecked at Malta, stoned at Lystra and left for dead, and beaten and berated across the years of his missionary journeys. He knew well, from firsthand experience, what the Holy Spirit led him to write when he penned these words of our family secret.
Yes, all things are what? Working together. For what? Good. For example, I would not like to sit down for a meal and eat a bowl of baking soda. In and of itself, baking soda is distasteful. Nor would I look forward to eating a nice serving of flour. However, put them together, add a few other ingredients, stir them up, put them in the oven, and they turn into biscuits. And I love biscuits! All things, not necessarily in and of themselves, but when worked together in the tapestry of the cross, come out for our good and for God’s glory. This family secret is not only constructive, but it is comprehensive. Yes, all things are working together for our good at this very moment.
The Family Secret is Conditional
================================
"to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose"
An unofficial poll taken of Sunday-morning church attendees asked them to
quote Romans 8:28. The majority of them left off the first phrase "And we
know." They simply began with the phrase "all things work together for good."
But, interestingly, they also left off the last phrase that states, "to those
who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose."
Our family secret is conditional. It is not a blanket, unconditional promise
for everyone. It is for those who "love God." Those who do not love Him are
generally resentful about certain things that come their way. Only those who
love Him and sense that there is purpose in their lives can understand the
deep truth of Romans 8:28 and say with Job, “Naked I came from my mother’s
womb, and naked shall I return there. The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken
away; blessed be the name of the Lord” (Job 1:21).
Love is something we do. In the Bible, it is always equated with action. Jesus
said, "If you love Me, keep My commandments" (John 14:15). John framed it by
saying, “For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments” (1 John
5:3). Thus, we come to the bottom-line questions: Do we love God? Do we sense
that we are called according to His purpose for our lives? Loving God and
abiding in His will--His purpose--is the condition by which the truth of this
verse comes home to our hearts. As you memorize Romans 8:28 this week,
meditate on the deep reality that God is awake and aware of everything that
comes our way.
He has His own wonderful way of turning our bitterness into blessing. We have that family secret in God’s forever family.
