Then you are not really understanding what scriptures plainly say when it said that Joseph did not know Mary till she had brought forth Jesus, I am sorry to say.
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Neither the Greek
heos, nor the Eglish translations
until or
till mean something changed after the "until" point.
Until is just a time marker.
until
n preposition & conjunction up to (the point in time or the event mentioned).
(
Concise OXford English Dictionary)
The
Collins Concise Dictionary says a little more:
until
1. up to (a time}
2. (used with a negative) before (a time of event)
Until is used to mark a period of time and says nothing about what happens outside that period of time.
Something happens, or does not happen from time point "A"
until time point "B"
What happens after time point "B" we either:
1. simply do not know.
2. infer from something else in the text.
3. assume from the general context.
To assume an action changes leads to nonsense.
For example
"Michal the daughter of Saul had no children till the day of her death" (2 Sam. 6:23).
Are we to assume therefore she had children
after her death? NO
“There was also a prophetess, Anna, the daughter of Phanuel, of the tribe of Asher. She was advanced in years, having lived seven years with her husband after her marriage, and then as a widow until she was eighty-four.” Lk 2:36-37).
Does that imply she got married at the age of 84? NO
Jesus said to the Apostles “And remember, I am with you always, to the end of the age.” (Mt 28:20).
Does that mean he won’t be with us after the end of the age? NO
but to [until] this day no one knows the place of his [Moses] burial (Deut 34:6)
Do we know the place of Moses burial? NO
For he [Christ] must reign until he has put all his enemies under his feet. (1Cor 15:25)
Will Christ stop reigning after he has put all his enemies under his feet? NO
Until I arrive, attend to the reading, exhortation, and teaching.(1Tim 4:13)
After Paul arrives will Timothy stop reading, exhortation and teaching? NO
except that you must hold fast to what you have until I come. (Rev 2:25)
Do we stop holding fast after Christ comes? NO
To the victor, who keeps to my ways until the end, I will give authority over the nations.(Rev 2:26)
Do the victors stop keeping Christ’s ways at the end? NO
keep the commandment without stain or reproach until the appearance of our Lord Jesus Christ (1Tim 6:14)
Could Timothy stop keeping the commandments when Jesus appeared? NO
Go back to the definition of until in the COED
preposition & conjunction up to (the point in time or the event mentioned).
Do you follow that. Something happens (or does not happen) from time point A"
until [up to] time point "B".
"When Joseph woke up, he did as the angel of the Lord commanded and took Mary as his wife [time point "A"] But he did not have sexual relations with her until her son was born [time point "B"].
Let me rephrase that:
Between the time Joseph took Mary into his home and the time that Jesus was born Joseph had no sexual relations with her.
It's just about
that period of time. Nothing more. It says nothing about what happened afterwards.
Anything that happens afterwords is conjecture.
If someone tells you that he did not sleep with his wife until they got married, what do you understand by that?
That they didn't commit the sin of fornication.