You can call it what you want, but it is what it is; men are born with a nature that is prone to sin, a rebellious nature with regard to God ~ slaves to sin rather than slaves to righteousness. This is the dichotomy presented by Paul in Romans 6:17-19 ~
"But thanks be to God, that you who were once slaves of sin have become obedient from the heart to the standard of teaching to which you were committed, and, having been set free from sin, have become slaves of righteousness. I am speaking in human terms, because of your natural limitations. For just as you once presented your members as slaves to impurity and to lawlessness leading to more lawlessness, so now present your members as slaves to righteousness leading to sanctification."
Absolutely not.
Yeah, no, and no. Because of his nature, he cannot help but choose ~ freely ~ to sin, and to dwell in sin. He is, by nature, not of God, but of his father the devil, and therefore wholly inclined toward sin.
And your example is rendered invalid by the fact that all men are born not of God but of our first parents, namely Adam, who died the very day he ate of the fruit of the tree in Eden ~ just as God said he would. He took on this sinful state, and we, as his progeny, naturally have it and are in need of being reborn of the Spirit.
No, because there is no such thing as innocence, because of the sinful condition Adam, the federal head of the human race, fell into as a result of eating from the forbidden tree. All are guilty from conception/birth. The fact is that those opposed to John Calvin's understanding of Genesis 3 in particular (and Augustine before him) want to believe, like Jacobus Arminius did (and Pelagius before him) that man did not inherit Adam's state of guilt and can somehow redeem themselves, or at least contribute something to his or her salvation.
No and no. God is no "villain." All men, from Adam on down are deserving of condemnation.
Stop with the "born against their will" thing; it's totally ridiculous. Hey, there's people out there who wish they were never born; were they born against their will? Well, if you flip chronological time upside down, then maybe, but such is a ridiculous thought.
It's the condition of the heart, which is wholly inclined against God, for which they are condemned. Paul says in Romans 7 and 8, speaking of all believers
before they are born again of the Spirit:
"For while we were living in the flesh, our sinful passions, aroused by the law, were at work in our members to bear fruit for death. For the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God’s law; indeed, it cannot. Those who are in the flesh cannot please God."
But then he contrasts us with our state now, having been born of the Spirit and therefore in Christ Jesus:
"You, however, are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if in fact the Spirit of God dwells in you. Anyone who does not have the Spirit of Christ does not belong to Him. But if Christ is in you, although the body is dead because of sin, the Spirit is life because of righteousness."
The dead cannot do anything, much less choose anything. All can be justly condemned, and are, at least initially, because they are in Adam, rather than in the Second Adam, Christ Jesus. But... well, I'll let Paul speak again:
"But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ ~ by grace you have been saved ~ and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, so that in the coming ages he might show the immeasurable riches of his grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus. For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them."
See, there's a lot wrong with this statement, but I'll just question you here and say, does Jesus not explicitly tell Nicodemus the following?
"That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. Do not marvel that I said to you, ‘You must be born again.’ The wind blows where it wishes, and you hear its sound, but you do not know where it comes from or where it goes. So it is with everyone who is born of the Spirit.”
To be continued...