His discipline is only constructive when we receive it as such. It can also be destructive in that it can be a punishment to lead us to repentance.
David, this is one of the most precious promises in the Bible,
Hebrews 12:5-13 KJV
5) And ye have forgotten the exhortation which speaketh unto you as unto children, My son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when thou art rebuked of him:
6) For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth.
7) If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son is he whom the father chasteneth not?
8) But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons.
9) Furthermore we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them reverence: shall we not much rather be in subjection unto the Father of spirits, and live?
10) For they verily for a few days chastened us after their own pleasure;
but he for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness.
11)
Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.
12) Wherefore lift up the hands which hang down, and the feeble knees;
13) And make straight paths for your feet, lest that which is lame be turned out of the way; but let it rather be healed.
His chastening
works. He
will chasten us (train as you train a child) as needed. If He doesn't, it means we're not even His. He will chasten us, and His chastening IS effective, and will yield the peaceable fruit of righteousness.
God's promise to His children: He will chasten them, and His chastening will bring righteousness. To embrace this truth in a fully open heart is to receive the love from our Creator in His promise that He will see us through to the end.
Make staight paths for your feet, lest that which is lame be turned out of the way, but let it rather be healed. We play a part, of course, and we can resist Him, however, that does not stop His promise. But we can in our own eyes go "from bad to worse" as that part of our life that is so difficult becomes worse still.
Our flesh is corrupted - lame - unable to walk in the Way. When we are reborn, our new spirit is born for that life, but is in this body of sin. We learn the Way, but if we do not walk in it, God may exercise us with His chastening. If He does, our admonition is that we do the part we can do, make straight paths, that is, make good choices, EVEN IF we are still lame - unable to walk in the Way.
As we choose to walk in God's Way, and God restores us - renews our minds - showing that we can walk in His way, as we do, trusting Him, even some of that fleshy corruption is restored as our brains re-wire themselves towards that new behavior and thought, righteous behavior and thought. Brain plasticity.
God promises that He will chasten us, and if He doesn't we're not even His. And His chastening works, bringing righteousness. He WILL see us through to the end!
Much love!