If I read sister Lizbeth correctly, she did take that "golden rule" position originally, but backed-off to an Arminian "election by foreknowledge" position. I'll let her speak for herself.
I think you've described what John Wesley called God's universal but resistible "prevenient grace", which was Wesley's answer to the Calvinist combination of total depravity plus irresistible grace, the T and I of TULIP. Is her experience a universal "golden rule", that God MUST act with I to overcome T in a person's heart for faith to occur? If not all come to faith, the logic is inescapable: You must also accept U, L, and P and scissor 1 John 2:1-2, 1 Timothy 2:4, and 2 Peter 3:9 out of your Bible, because they're a lie. God does not desire all to come to repentance and be saved, and Christ didn't die for the sins of the whole world.
Like I said, that last sentence is near the top of my list of things I DON'T believe. Besides, if Man is not capable of having faith, how does he trust the persons he does trust and believe the things he does believe?