Baptism is for one who already had their sins forgiven and been born of the Spirit. Paul made that abundantly clear!
Well, right, in the case of never having been previously baptized.
But as Peter says in Acts 2, the promise is for people of all ages... In Acts 2, in response to the hearers' question,
"Brothers, what shall we do?" regarding what the apostles were saying, Peter said to them,
"Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. For the promise is for you and for your children and for all who are far off, everyone whom the Lord our God calls to Himself." God makes the promise, of course.
So, for believers of any age ~ who have been born of the Spirit ~ yes, if they've never been baptized, then yes, they should be.
But even in the case of
babies... what's happening is that the believing parents are
calling God, in faith, on His promise on behalf of their child and trusting in Him to work in his or her heart ~ that at some time in his or her life God will call them to Himself, as He has promised ~ at the time of his or her appointment.
Baptism is an outward sign and seal of God's Covenant, the New Testament sign and seal, which has replaced the Old Testament sign and seal of the same ~ circumcision, which, as I'm sure you know, was to be performed on... babies/infants. As such, it is a sacrament given to us by God, for our good as well as the... baptize-ee,
regardless of age, an outward sign of God's promise of salvation.
One last thing: A differentiation has to be made ~ because Scripture makes it ~ between this outward baptism we're talking about here and
inward baptism, which is by the Holy Spirit. This inward baptism is performed by the Spirit at the time of new birth of and by the Holy Spirit Himself. As Jesus said to his disciples and apostles in Acts 1:5,
"John baptized with water, but you will be baptized with the Holy Spirit not many days from now." Of course, He was foretelling them specifically of Pentecost, but this is true for all of us, each at his/her own time.
You see?
Grace and peace to you, Ronald.
There are many videos out there that give proof that someone can lose their salvation.
Well, in the sense that none of us have salvation from birth, so we have all lost it in this sense, yes, agreed. But if God has given a person salvation, given him or her
new birth by the Holy Spirit (Ephesians 2), made
elect of God (Romans 9) and
placed in Christ (Romans 8, Galatians 3), then he or she is then
of God, no longer of his or her former father the devil, and cannot lose what God has given him (
"the gifts and the calling of God are irrevocable" ~ Romans 11) ... cannot be separated by anything in all creation, even himself or herself, from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord (Romans 8:37-39). For any born-again Christian, he or she is
"born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, to an inheritance that is imperishable, undefiled, and unfading, kept in heaven for (him/her), who by God’s power are being guarded through faith for a salvation ready to be revealed in the last time" (1 Peter 1:3-5).
Stuff on hell testimonies. Those who call themselves Christians. I could post videos over in the testimony section. If anyone is up for them, visit the threads if I do post one.
Regarding "falling away" from the faith, there are many passages from Scripture that could be cited here, but these should be sufficient:
"Take care, brothers, lest there be in any of you an evil, unbelieving heart, leading you to fall away from the living God." (Hebrews 3:12) So, the one who falls away was never a believer, never born again of the Spirit. As John says in 1 John 2:18-20,
"...many antichrists have come. Therefore we know that it is the last hour. They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would have continued with us. But they went out, that it might become plain that they all are not of us."
Grace and peace to you, STL.