My point is that what we would consider the wrath of God was tempered considerably.
That is his prerogative, as he sees factors that are not obvious to us.
David’s sin with Bathsheba for example, involved adultery and murder, as he orchestrated the death of her husband to cover up her pregnancy. Both of those crimes against God demanded the death penalty. Yet Jehovah himself took on his case, and used the prophet Nathan to lead David into condemning himself out of his own mouth.
When he realised the full gravity of what he had done, his heart was shattered and his repentance was sincere. God forgave him on the basis of that repentance, and he married Bathsheba who bore him another son, Solomon, whom God endowed with wisdom beyond all others, and used him to write many proverbs and the book of Ecclesiastes, where his Godly wisdom shines to this day.
Yet David paid for his sins in many other ways...his life was plagued with troubles as his writings reveal. His God did not prevent them.
No one gets away with anything.....all will answer for their own sins one way or another. We will all “reap what we have sown”. God’s justice will be done.
The gravity of our sin is not what convicts us...it is the level of our repentance that counts with God.
Think about Manasseh. (2 Chron 33:1-10)
Conversely we can compare what happened to Korah, Dathan and Abiram....no mercy was involved in their punishment. (Numbers 26:9-10) Their rebellion was called a “struggle against Jehovah”. They questioned the authority that God had given to Moses and Aaron, which called into question God’s choice of the leaders of his people.
Compare these two accounts. God examines the heart, not just the speech or the actions.
We first have to acknowledge the sin, repent of the wrongdoing, and then live a life that demonstrates that repentance.
Manasseh was probably the best example of God’s forgiveness, as this King was said to be more wicked than any other, yet when Jehovah humbled him and brought him to his knees. In his humiliation, he repented, and God restored him to his kingship and thereafter, he lived his life making it up to his God for all the wickedness he had practiced. (2 Chron 33:11-16)