Indeed, your assessment is accurate, and your position is fair.
But that challenge of knowing what is actually true among all who say they know God, is part of His plan--it is his doing. In scripture, a testimony to this came from Moses, when after being in the presence of God witnessed by thousands, at the end of his life as Israel was about to pass over into the promised land, he showed his hand revealing what God had done, saying, "I call heaven and earth as witnesses today against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing; therefore choose life, that both you and your descendants may live" (Deuteronomy 30:19). Which Moses did before all of Israel, and then Jesus did also before the Church. In other words, life is suppose to be a time of decision--ultimately "freewill"--where each person is faced with circumstances like you see in your own life, to decide their own eternal fate. And the confusion and conflict you described...is just the result of millions of people struggling with their decision. Pretty simple really.
As for only God offering that to you personally...that's what He is doing--with us all actually. But you may have to look for the handwriting on the wall to see it more clearly. Coincidences are one of the telltale signs: If you are paying attention, sometimes coincidences are just too much to actually be coincidence. There are other things too, if you are looking for them.
Happy hunting!