The Parable of the Ten Virgins — A Deep Study

[LoveYeshua]

The Parable of the Ten Virgins — A Deep Study​

PART 1​

Matthew 25:1–13 (NKJV)

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The Text​

Then the kingdom of heaven shall be likened to ten virgins who took their lamps and went out to meet the bridegroom. Now five of them were wise, and five were foolish. Those who were foolish took their lamps and took no oil with them, but the wise took oil in their vessels with their lamps. But while the bridegroom was delayed, they all slumbered and slept. And at midnight a cry was heard: 'Behold, the bridegroom is coming; go out to meet him!' Then all those virgins arose and trimmed their lamps. And the foolish said to the wise, 'Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out.' But the wise answered, saying, 'No, lest there should not be enough for us and you; but go rather to those who sell, and buy for yourselves.' And while they went to buy, the bridegroom came, and those who were ready went in with him to the wedding; and the door was shut. Afterward the other virgins came also, saying, 'Lord, Lord, open to us!' But he answered and said, 'Assuredly, I say to you, I do not know you.' Watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour in which the Son of Man is coming. — Matthew 25:1–13 (NKJV)​

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Historical & Cultural Background​

To fully understand this parable, you must picture a first-century Jewish wedding. Weddings were community celebrations lasting several days. The bridegroom would travel — sometimes at night — to collect his bride and bring her to the wedding feast. The virgins (bridesmaids) had one specific role: to escort and welcome the bridegroom with lit lamps, creating a procession of light and honor into the celebration.

If your lamp went out, you were disqualified from the procession. It was not merely embarrassing — it was a serious cultural offense. Being shut out of the feast meant total exclusion from the greatest celebration in the community.

Jesus' audience understood this picture immediately. He was using the most joyous, anticipated event in Jewish life — a wedding — to describe the most anticipated event in all of history: His return.

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Who Are the Characters?​

The Bridegroom is Jesus Christ Himself. Jesus used this image of Himself directly. When the disciples of John asked why Jesus' disciples did not fast, Jesus answered:

Can the friends of the bridegroom mourn as long as the bridegroom is with them? But the days will come when the bridegroom will be taken away from them, and then they will fast. — Matthew 9:15 (NKJV)

John the Baptist, who heard Jesus' own voice, confirmed this identity:

He who has the bride is the bridegroom; but the friend of the bridegroom, who stands and hears him, rejoices greatly because of the bridegroom's voice. — John 3:29 (NKJV)​

And the book of Revelation, containing the direct words and visions given by Jesus Himself to John, declares:

Let us be glad and rejoice and give Him glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and His wife has made herself ready. — Revelation 19:7 (NKJV)​

The bridegroom coming at midnight is a direct picture of the Second Coming of Christ.

The Ten Virgins represent professing Christians — people who identify with the faith, who are part of the visible Church, who are actively waiting for the Lord. They are not pagans or open unbelievers. All ten knew the bridegroom was coming. All ten went out to meet him. All ten carried lamps. This is the most sobering detail of the entire parable: it is not about believers versus unbelievers — it is about genuine believers versus those whose faith is superficial and unprepared.

The Lamps represent outward Christian profession — the visible, external expression of faith. Going to church, reading the Bible, knowing the right language, being part of the community — these are the lamps. Both groups had them. But having a lamp alone proved to be tragically insufficient.

The Oil is the heart of the entire parable. In Scripture, oil consistently symbolizes the Holy Spirit. In the Old Testament, kings and priests were anointed with oil as the Spirit of God was poured upon them. The prophet Zechariah saw a vision of a golden lampstand fed by flowing oil, and the angel declared:

'Not by might nor by power, but by My Spirit,' says the Lord of hosts. — Zechariah 4:6 (NKJV)​

The prophet Isaiah also spoke of the Spirit being poured out as a transforming, sustaining presence:

Until the Spirit is poured upon us from on high, and the wilderness becomes a fruitful field, and the fruitful field is counted as a forest. — Isaiah 32:15 (NKJV)​

The oil that kept the lamps burning is the Holy Spirit dwelling within a person — the inner, genuine, transforming work of God in the soul. Critically, it cannot be borrowed from someone else, and it cannot be purchased at the last moment once the door is shut.

The Extra Vessels of Oil the wise virgins carried represent a sustained, deep, personal relationship with God — an inner reservoir built up over time through prayer, surrender, genuine repentance, and living faith. They did not just have a lamp; they had a supply ready for the long wait.

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[LoveYeshua]

The Parable of the Ten Virgins — A Deep Study​

PART 2​

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What Happened While They Waited?​

But while the bridegroom was delayed, they all slumbered and slept. — Matthew 25:5 (NKJV)​

Notice: all ten fell asleep — not just the foolish. This is not condemning sleep itself. It represents the long passage of time between Christ's ascension and His return — now nearly 2,000 years. Every generation has grown weary in the waiting. Life moves on, the world distracts, and spiritual vigilance can gradually fade.

The crucial difference was not that the wise stayed awake while the foolish slept. The difference was what they had already prepared before they slept. This truth cuts deep: there comes a point in life — and in history — when what you have already built in your inner life is what you have. You cannot manufacture depth at the final hour.

Jesus Himself warned of this exact spiritual drifting in the Olivet Discourse just before this parable:

But take heed to yourselves, lest your hearts be weighed down with carousing, drunkenness, and cares of this life, and that Day come on you unexpectedly. For it will come as a snare on all those who dwell on the face of the whole earth. — Luke 21:34–35 (NKJV)​

The "cares of this life" — not necessarily great sin, but everyday distraction and comfort — are what cause the lamp to slowly go out.

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The Midnight Cry​

And at midnight a cry was heard: 'Behold, the bridegroom is coming; go out to meet him!' — Matthew 25:6 (NKJV)​

Midnight — the darkest, most unexpected hour. Jesus is deliberate here. He comes when no one is fully expecting Him, in a sudden and dramatic moment. He made this plain in His own words:

Therefore you also be ready, for the Son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect. — Matthew 24:44 (NKJV)​

Watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour in which the Son of Man is coming. — Matthew 25:13 (NKJV)​

And in Revelation, Jesus Himself announces:

Behold, I am coming as a thief. Blessed is he who watches, and keeps his garments, lest he walk naked and they see his shame. — Revelation 16:15 (NKJV)​

When that cry comes, there is no more preparation time. The moment has arrived and the window has closed.

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The Tragedy of the Foolish Five​

When the cry rang out, the foolish virgins discovered their lamps were going out. The Greek implies the lamps had been lit at some point — they had a start, a flame, a religious experience — but with no sustained fuel, that flame was dying. They had the appearance of readiness without the reality of it.

Their first instinct was to ask the wise for oil. The refusal of the wise was not selfishness — it was spiritual reality. Inner life before God cannot be transferred. No one can give you their walk with God. Your parents' faith cannot save you. Your pastor's anointing cannot substitute for your own. Your church membership cannot fill what only the Holy Spirit can fill.

They went to buy oil — but it was too late. While they were away, the bridegroom arrived. The door shut. When they returned and cried out, He spoke the most devastating words imaginable:

Assuredly, I say to you, I do not know you. — Matthew 25:12 (NKJV)​

This mirrors precisely what Jesus warned in the Sermon on the Mount:

Not everyone who says to Me, 'Lord, Lord,' shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father in heaven. Many will say to Me in that day, 'Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Your name, cast out demons in Your name, and done many wonders in Your name?' And then I will declare to them, 'I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness!' — Matthew 7:21–23 (NKJV)​

These people called Him Lord. They expected entry. They were utterly shocked. Yet the deep, genuine, personal knowledge of Christ was never truly there. Having performed religious activities — even miraculous ones — was no substitute for truly knowing Him and being known by Him.

Jesus reinforced this same truth through the parable of the sower, where some seed springs up quickly with apparent life but has no root:

But he who received the seed on stony places, this is he who hears the word and immediately receives it with joy; yet he has no root in himself, but endures only for a while. For when tribulation or persecution arises because of the word, immediately he stumbles. — Matthew 13:20–21 (NKJV)​

No root. No oil. No depth. The result is the same — a lamp that goes out when the pressure comes.

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The Closing Command​

Watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour in which the Son of Man is coming. — Matthew 25:13 (NKJV)​

Jesus closes not with a theological lecture but with a direct command: watch. This same command appears repeatedly in Jesus' own teaching on the end times. In Mark's account of the Olivet Discourse, Jesus intensifies it:

Take heed, watch and pray; for you do not know when the time is... And what I say to you, I say to all: Watch! — Mark 13:33, 37 (NKJV)​

The Greek word grēgoreō — watch — means to be spiritually awake, alert, and actively vigilant. Not passive assumption, not religious routine on autopilot, but active and ongoing readiness of heart.

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— End of Part 2 —

 

[LoveYeshua]

The Parable of the Ten Virgins — A Deep Study​

PART 3​

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Connection to the End Times We Are Living In​

This parable was given as part of the Olivet Discourse — Jesus' own extended teaching on the signs of the end and His return in Matthew 24–25. He told this parable immediately after listing the signs of the end of the age, making the application unmistakable: this parable is for the generation that sees those signs converging.

Jesus warned:

And you will hear of wars and rumors of wars. See that you are not troubled; for all these things must come to pass, but the end is not yet. For nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom. And there will be famines, pestilences, and earthquakes in various places. All these are the beginning of sorrows. — Matthew 24:6–8 (NKJV)​

And because lawlessness will abound, the love of many will grow cold. — Matthew 24:12 (NKJV)​

And this gospel of the kingdom will be preached in all the world as a witness to all the nations, and then the end will come. — Matthew 24:14 (NKJV)​

We are living in a season where these signs are converging simultaneously on a global scale — something no previous generation has witnessed at this magnitude. Wars and geopolitical chaos dominate every headline. Pestilences have shaken the entire world. Moral collapse and the normalization of lawlessness are accelerating at breathtaking speed. The Gospel is being preached to every nation through technology in ways unimaginable to any previous generation.

And the sign Jesus pointed to most specifically — the fig tree, which Scripture consistently uses as a symbol of Israel — has come to pass:

Now learn this parable from the fig tree: When its branch has already become tender and puts forth leaves, you know that summer is near. So you also, when you see all these things, know that it is near — at the doors! Assuredly, I say to you, this generation will by no means pass away till all these things take place. — Matthew 24:32–34 (NKJV)​

Israel's restoration as a nation in 1948, after nearly 2,000 years of dispersion, stands as one of the most stunning prophetic fulfillments in history — exactly as the ancient prophets foretold:

Who has heard such a thing? Who has seen such things? Shall the earth be made to give birth in one day? Or shall a nation be born at once? — Isaiah 66:8 (NKJV)​

The prophet Ezekiel foresaw the physical and spiritual restoration of Israel in detail centuries before it happened:

Therefore prophesy and say to them, 'Thus says the Lord God: Behold, O My people, I will open your graves and cause you to come up from your graves, and bring you into the land of Israel.' — Ezekiel 37:12 (NKJV)​

We are the generation watching all of these things come together. The parable of the ten virgins speaks directly to the Church in this precise hour. The danger Jesus is warning against is not atheism — it is spiritual sleepiness among those who already call themselves believers. The greatest risk is not open rejection of God, but assuming you are ready when you are not — carrying a lamp with no oil, bearing a name with no relationship, going through religious motions with no inner fire.

Jesus Himself described the spiritual condition of the last days Church with piercing accuracy in His letters to the seven churches in Revelation. To the church at Laodicea — perhaps the most fitting portrait of the Western church today — He said:

I know your works, that you are neither cold nor hot. I could wish you were cold or hot. So then, because you are lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will vomit you out of My mouth. Because you say, 'I am rich, have become wealthy, and have need of nothing' — and do not know that you are wretched, miserable, poor, blind, and naked. — Revelation 3:15–17 (NKJV)​

This is a lamp going out. Comfortable. Presumptuous. Unaware. And yet Jesus does not abandon them — He follows with one of the most tender invitations in all of Scripture:

Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and dine with him, and he with Me. — Revelation 3:20 (NKJV)​

The oil is still available. The door of grace is still open. But it will not always be.

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— End of Part 3 —

 

[LoveYeshua]

The Parable of the Ten Virgins — A Deep Study​

PART 4​

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How to Get Ready — Practically and Spiritually​

Getting ready is not a one-time event. It is a lifestyle of genuine, sustained relationship with God that builds a real inner reservoir. Here is what that looks like, from the words of Jesus and the prophets:

Genuine Repentance and Surrender. Do not presume that a past prayer or childhood decision is sufficient if your life does not reflect a real and ongoing relationship with God. Jesus began His entire ministry with this call:

Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand. — Matthew 4:17 (NKJV)​

And He made the terms of true discipleship unmistakably clear:

If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me. — Luke 9:23 (NKJV)​

This is not a one-time transaction — it is a daily, ongoing surrender. This is where the oil begins to flow.

Seek God With Your Whole Heart. The prophet Jeremiah recorded God's promise that remains eternally true:

And you will seek Me and find Me, when you search for Me with all your heart. — Jeremiah 29:13 (NKJV)​

Half-hearted religion produces half-empty lamps. Wholehearted pursuit of God produces vessels full of oil.

Make Prayer a Daily, Real Priority. Jesus modeled and commanded a life of prayer. He gave clear instruction:

But you, when you pray, go into your room, and when you have shut your door, pray to your Father who is in the secret place; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly. — Matthew 6:6 (NKJV)​

And He urged persistent, passionate, expectant prayer:

Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened. — Matthew 7:7–8 (NKJV)​

Men always ought to pray and not lose heart. — Luke 18:1 (NKJV)​

Oil is not manufactured by religious busyness — it is received in genuine, persistent intimacy with God.

Stay Immersed in the Word of God. The ancient psalmist declared:

Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path. — Psalm 119:105 (NKJV)​

And Jesus Himself declared the absolute necessity of His words as spiritual food:

It is written, 'Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.' — Matthew 4:4 (NKJV)​

If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, you will ask what you desire, and it shall be done for you. — John 15:7 (NKJV)​

Daily immersion in Scripture is not optional for the prepared virgin — it is the very channel through which the oil flows.

Live with Eternity Consciously in View. Jesus gave this as a foundational command for daily life:

But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. — Matthew 6:33 (NKJV)​

Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal; but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven. — Matthew 6:19–20 (NKJV)​

Resist the drift toward worldliness and comfort that produces spiritual sleep. Re-orient your daily decisions around what matters in eternity.

Stay Connected to a Genuine Community of Believers. You cannot carry oil for someone else — but genuine community keeps you awake, accountable, and alert. The writer of Hebrews gives this urgent exhortation:

And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching. — Hebrews 10:24–25 (NKJV)​

Notice the urgency: so much the more as you see the Day approaching. We are in that season. You need people around you who will sound the alarm when you begin to drift.

Walk in Genuine Holiness and Obedience. Jesus was unmistakable on this point:

Not everyone who says to Me, 'Lord, Lord,' shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father in heaven. — Matthew 7:21 (NKJV)​

If you love Me, keep My commandments. — John 14:15 (NKJV)​

Obedience is not how you earn salvation — it is the evidence that the oil is real. A life genuinely filled with the Holy Spirit will show it in how you live. Peter, who walked with Jesus, confirmed:

But also for this very reason, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, to godliness brotherly kindness, and to brotherly kindness love. For if these things are yours and abound, you will be neither barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. — 2 Peter 1:5–8 (NKJV)​

Where there is no fruit over time, the question of oil must be honestly and prayerfully examined.

Examine Yourself — Do Not Presume. The foolish virgins never seriously examined whether their supply was real. They assumed. They presumed. And the door shut on their presumption. John the apostle gives us the clearest test of genuine inner life:

By this we know that we know Him, if we keep His commandments. He who says, 'I know Him,' and does not keep His commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him. — 1 John 2:3–4 (NKJV)​

We know that we have passed from death to life, because we love the brethren. — 1 John 3:14 (NKJV)​

This is not a call to anxiety and torment — it is a call to honest, humble self-examination before God while the door is still open. Come before Him with complete honesty, and He will meet you there.

Respond to His Knock Today. Jesus is still standing at the door. The invitation is still extended:

Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and dine with him, and he with Me. — Revelation 3:20 (NKJV)​

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[LoveYeshua]

The Parable of the Ten Virgins — A Deep Study​

PART 5 — Final Word​

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The door will shut. This is not a threat made to frighten — it is a loving warning given to save. Every parable Jesus told about the end carries this moment: the point of no return. He was clear and consistent:

Strive to enter through the narrow gate, for many, I say to you, will seek to enter and will not be able. When once the Master of the house has risen up and shut the door, and you begin to stand outside and knock at the door, saying, 'Lord, Lord, open for us,' and He will answer and say to you, 'I do not know you, where you are from.' — Luke 13:24–25 (NKJV)​

The same Master who shuts the door is the same Master who right now declares:

Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. — Matthew 11:28 (NKJV)​

The most loving thing Jesus could do was warn us while there is still time — and that is exactly what this parable is. A warning. An invitation. A call to get ready now.

The great and glorious news is that the door is still open. The bridegroom has not yet come. The midnight cry has not yet sounded. We are living in the time of preparation — and by every sign Jesus gave us, we may be living in the very final hours of that waiting period.

There is still time — but not unlimited time — to fill your lamp with oil.

Behold, I am coming quickly! Hold fast what you have, that no one may take your crown. — Revelation 3:11 (NKJV)​

He who testifies to these things says, 'Surely I am coming quickly.' Amen. Even so, come, Lord Jesus! — Revelation 22:20 (NKJV)​

Do not wait. Do not assume. Do not presume on tomorrow. Get ready today.

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— End of Part 5 — End of Study —

please feel free to copy and redistribute. written by R. Picard Feb, 2026.

 

[rebuilder 454]

I just realized something.

In the postrib doctrine, they say, erroneously, that the wicked are taken first, and the righteous remain PRETRIB...BEFORE THE FLOOD.

Not possible.

Now we see the righteous taken, pretrib, (true and factual), and the carnal saints remain behind ,in the virgin parable.

We also see the wise saints TAKEN TO HEAVEN ....AHEM, TO THE MARRIAGE. CHAMBER, AHEAD OF THE CARNAL BELIEVERS.

( postrib rapture claims believers never get to heaven, in the postribber invented turn in the clouds)

Postribber doctrine is flat out dishonest.

 

[rebuilder 454]

The Parable of the Ten Virgins — A Deep Study​

PART 5 — Final Word​

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The door will shut. This is not a threat made to frighten — it is a loving warning given to save. Every parable Jesus told about the end carries this moment: the point of no return. He was clear and consistent:

Strive to enter through the narrow gate, for many, I say to you, will seek to enter and will not be able. When once the Master of the house has risen up and shut the door, and you begin to stand outside and knock at the door, saying, 'Lord, Lord, open for us,' and He will answer and say to you, 'I do not know you, where you are from.' — Luke 13:24–25 (NKJV)​

The same Master who shuts the door is the same Master who right now declares:

Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. — Matthew 11:28 (NKJV)​

The most loving thing Jesus could do was warn us while there is still time — and that is exactly what this parable is. A warning. An invitation. A call to get ready now.

The great and glorious news is that the door is still open. The bridegroom has not yet come. The midnight cry has not yet sounded. We are living in the time of preparation — and by every sign Jesus gave us, we may be living in the very final hours of that waiting period.

There is still time — but not unlimited time — to fill your lamp with oil.

Behold, I am coming quickly! Hold fast what you have, that no one may take your crown. — Revelation 3:11 (NKJV)​

He who testifies to these things says, 'Surely I am coming quickly.' Amen. Even so, come, Lord Jesus! — Revelation 22:20 (NKJV)​

Do not wait. Do not assume. Do not presume on tomorrow. Get ready today.

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— End of Part 5 — End of Study —

please feel free to copy and redistribute. written by R. Picard Feb, 2026.

Amen.
A call to the carnal believers to be refilled with oil....to get ready to leave.
A call to the wise saints, that stay ready, to go to heaven, as the parable declares.

 

[LoveYeshua]

I just realized something.

In the postrib doctrine, they say, erroneously, that the wicked are taken first, and the righteous remain PRETRIB...BEFORE THE FLOOD.

Not possible.

Now we see the righteous taken, pretrib, (true and factual), and the carnal saints remain behind ,in the virgin parable.

We also see the wise saints TAKEN TO HEAVEN ....AHEM, TO THE MARRIAGE. CHAMBER, AHEAD OF THE CARNAL BELIEVERS.

( postrib rapture claims believers never get to heaven, in the postribber invented turn in the clouds)

Postribber doctrine is flat out dishonest.

Hello Rebuilder,

The weight of the plain text points to one coming, one gathering, at the end — not two stages. The wise virgins are those ready when he arrives, not removed beforehand. Paul's "catching up" happens at the last trumpet, after the man of sin is revealed. The Marriage Supper in Revelation follows the tribulation.

your argument reads things into the Parable of the Virgins that the text itself does not say. The parable is about readiness at arrival, not a pre-tribulation extraction of one group before another. it is not a rapture parable but many want to make it so thus the problem.

 

[rebuilder 454]

Hello Rebuilder,

The weight of the plain text points to one coming, one gathering, at the end — not two stages. The wise virgins are those ready when he arrives, not removed beforehand. Paul's "catching up" happens at the last trumpet, after the man of sin is revealed. The Marriage Supper in Revelation follows the tribulation.

your argument reads things into the Parable of the Virgins that the text itself does not say. The parable is about readiness at arrival, not a pre-tribulation extraction of one group before another. it is not a rapture parable but many want to make it so thus the problem.

They went into the marriage chamber.

Ask a postrib when the wedding is.
1) they say not in heaven
2) they say after the trib and on earth after the second coming.

The buble does not teach one coming.
Unless we reframe it.
The one coming is not biblical.
Look at Rev 14:14.
That is Jesus sitting on a cloud DURING THE TRIB.
NOT at the second coming AFTER THE 7 YEAR TRIB ON white horses.

Then the PRETRIB COMING in mat 24.
Preflood gathering BEFORE THE FLOOD.

IT is a real dilemma.

But the 10 virgin parable is always changed by postribs.

 

[rebuilder 454]

Hello Rebuilder,

The weight of the plain text points to one coming, one gathering, at the end — not two stages. The wise virgins are those ready when he arrives, not removed beforehand. Paul's "catching up" happens at the last trumpet, after the man of sin is revealed. The Marriage Supper in Revelation follows the tribulation.

your argument reads things into the Parable of the Virgins that the text itself does not say. The parable is about readiness at arrival, not a pre-tribulation extraction of one group before another. it is not a rapture parable but many want to make it so thus the problem.

Readiness is only one component.
We all realize that component.