Continued from above...
But we must choose to come to Him first.
No, God must choose who is to be conformed to the image of His Son, which He did before the foundation of the world, according to His ~ not our ~ will, as Paul wrote in Ephesians 1:4-5, and we must be born again of the Spirit to enter or even see the Kingdom of God, as Jesus told Nicodemus in John 3:3-8.
He does not force Himself on people...
No, but He does have mercy and compassion on people... certain people, His elect... and in so doing gives them a new spirit, puts His Spirit in them. And in so doing they are drawn by God (see above) and freely do so... Otherwise, they would not.
, that is why He has us preach the gospel.
Faith ~ God's assurance of things hoped for, the conviction by the Spirit, Who convicts (Hebrews 11:1) ~ comes by hearing, as Paul says in Romans 10:17.
Not pick them out of a hat.
What God does can certainly seem arbitrary to us, but that does not make it so. God has purpose in everything He does, and that one over-arching purpose is His own glory. And regarding His elect, as Paul says,
"Has the potter no right over the clay, to make out of the same lump one vessel for honorable use and another for dishonorable use? What if God, desiring to show His wrath and to make known His power, has endured with much patience vessels of wrath prepared for destruction, in order to make known the riches of His glory for vessels of mercy, which He has prepared beforehand for glory ~ even us whom He has called, not from the Jews only but also from the Gentiles?" As Isaiah says, quoting God Himself, "My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways... as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts" (Isaiah 55:8-9).
The choice we make is not work
That's not what I said, and you know it. The choice we make is something we do, and therefore
a work. Come on, man.
Works are what we do after.
Agree with this, for sure. <
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Yes we decide to be born again, or not.
No, Nicodemus, we do not. <
smile> Did you somehow say to your mother and father, before you came to be, "I would like to be born," and then they decided to... well... you know, do the thing...? <
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We do not do the miracle required to be born of the spirit. God does...
Right...
Not right. At all. See above.
See above. Rinse, repeat.
Hmmm, yeah, so, right back to you... See above. Rinse, repeat. <smile>
Not at all.
It could mean (maybe to a Calvinist) God is able to select anyone from those groups or etc. Rather than 'The people in those nations could receive eternal life if they wanted to come to Jesus'
Hm. Okay, and it could mean both at the same time, and does.
I like the Children's version translation
When the non-Jewish people heard Paul say this, they were happy. They gave honor to the message of the Lord. And many of the people believed the message. They were the ones chosen to have life forever...
Hmmm... well that could be understood in two different ~ and valid ~ ways. But even though the ways are valid, they can still be contradictory, and not able to both be held to at the same time. In the last sentence, we could take it as written as either "They were the ones chosen
then or
as a result, to have life forever" or "They were the ones who
were, or
had been, chosen to have life forever." Because of the way it is written, both ways would be valid understandings, but they
cannot both be true. And as Paul says (yet again), "chose us in him before the foundation of the world... according to the purpose of his will." So the latter understanding, that "They were the ones who
were, or
had been, chosen to have life forever," is the correct way to read that.
In case anyone was thick...
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and missed that, it again spells it out a few verses later
39 and by Him all that believe are justified from all things, from which ye could not be justified by the Law of Moses.
"And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to His purpose. For those whom He foreknew He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, in order that He might be the firstborn among many brothers. And those whom He predestined He also called, and those whom He called He also justified, and those whom He justified He also glorified" (Romans 8:28-30).
There is nothing, absolutely nothing, in there ~ or in any like passage ~ about our making or not making a choice. Nothing. It is all about God... His purpose, and His actions.
If, as you seem to say, certain people already were pre programmed...
Not "pre-programmed." That's the Arminian characterization, but is just that, a... well, silly, really... characterization. A caricature, really.
...to have salvation, and others destined for hell fire...
God chose who He chose. He has mercy and compassion upon whom He chooses... elects to do so. And He doesn't choose others in this way. He is the Potter and we are the clay, and as such, endured with much patience those not chosen and makes known the riches of His glory those chosen. And as Creator, this is His prerogative. He is absolutely just to do so. He could have chosen not to extend his mercy and compassion to anybody, and He would have been absolutely just to do that. But there is grace. "But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which He loved us..." (His elect) "...even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ ~ by grace you have been saved.." (Ephesians 2:4-9).
He knows what we will choose!
Ah, yes, I... foresaw this... <
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"Those whom He foreknew," as Paul says in Romans 8:29... Yes, I knew ~ because we always do, with Arminians ~ we would eventually land here. So, 'foreknew.' Let me ask you this. That 'those,' there... Well, sorry, I'm not asking, I'm saying; there is no other way to understand this. That 'those' is a limited group. If we understand God's foreknowing as a mere cognitive "seeing into the future and knowing beforehand," well, God knows
everyone and
everything beforehand. We all agree on that. But Paul is obviously referring not to everyone, but a specific group of people, a subset of the whole of humanity. I think you can take it from there, but the unavoidable implication is that God does not foreknow ~ actually did not foreknow ~ everyone. So His foreknowing, as referred to by Paul there, cannot ~ cannot ~ be a mere cognitive knowing beforehand. This foreknowing is synonymous with fore-loving. His elect He fore-loved, which is what he says just a couple of sentences later, using Jacob and Esau as examples... representatives, really:
"...though they were not yet born and had done nothing either good or bad ~ in order that God’s purpose of election might continue, not because of works but because of Him who calls ~ (Rebecca) was told, 'The older will serve the younger.' As it is written, 'Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated'" (Romans 9:11-13).
God chooses those who choose Him.
So again you're saying, in effect, that God's will depends on our will, and turning Paul's statement that
"...it depends not on human will or exertion, but on God, who has mercy" (Romans 9:16) upside down. You don't mean to, I know, but you are.
Or, in prophesy, such as Jacob and his brother, those He knows will choose Him.
See above.
Yet you seem to suggest that God only selected some folks...
His elect, yes. See above.
...that would be swept along on a privileged magic carpet ride while most people were hopelessly doomed to hell.
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"...it depends not on human will or exertion, but on God, who has mercy." (Romans 9:16)
'It' - meaning salvation.
The 'it' is obviously referring to His purpose of election, so, His electing some and not all... those to whom He gives His mercy and compassion.
That was what Jesus died to give us.
Right, but regarding all of humanity, made it possible for us to have. He made a way, and is the one through Whom anyone can be reconciled to God. But only certain ones will be... God's elect. All of them will, after being born again of the Spirit, then freely and willingly call on the name of the Lord. This is the 'whosoever,' and they will be saved.
Grace and peace to you.