So far, every response has avoided the textual question I’m actually asking. The arguments offered address questions I never raised, or reframe my point into something I did not claim.
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It does. If she is not sexually active- there is no normal "HOW" she would get pregnant. that is why her question is asked in honestness and Gabriel told her the how.Thank you for replying.
If “I do not know man” simply meant Mary is not sexually active at present, that does not explain why She asks how conception will occur. If She expected normal marital relations with Joseph later, conception would not be puzzling — only the timing would be. In that case She would ask “When?”, not “How?”
It does. If she is not sexually active- there is no normal "HOW" she would get pregnant. that is why her question is asked in honestness and Gabriel told her the how.
The angel answers the how and the when. that dhould be enough.
and as Joseph and Mary having sex?
24 Then Joseph being raised from sleep did as the angel of the Lord had bidden him, and took unto him his wife:
25 And knew her not till she had brought forth her firstborn son: and he called his name Jesus.
anyone without a predisposed bias would read that as Joseph did not have sex with Mary until after Jesus was born
Your RCC predisposition is forcing you to reinterpret this verse. Her question is simple. How can I get pregnant since I am not sexually active? Gabriel tells her the Holy Ghost will impregnate her.Thank you for replying.
If “I do not know man” simply meant Mary is not sexually active at present, that does not explain why She asks how conception will occur. If She expected normal marital relations with Joseph later, conception would not be puzzling — only the timing would be. In that case She would ask “When?”, not “How?”
More importantly, how does your explanation address Gabriel’s response? Gabriel does not tell Her She will conceive through Joseph once the betrothal period ends. He instead explains a miraculous, non‑sexual conception and reinforces it by citing Elizabeth — a woman whose conception was naturally impossible.
So the question remains:
Why do both Mary and Gabriel speak as though conception is impossible without divine intervention if Mary expected normal marital relations?
Your reply explains neither Mary’s confusion nor Gabriel’s answer.
Well the Holy spirit did not take on the form of a man and have physical sex with Mary. His presence was enough to do the job. so that is a red herring.Gabriel’s explanation (“Holy Spirit will come upon you… power of the Most High will overshadow you”) is never used as a sexual description in Greek, Hebrew, or Aramaic. It is consistently a divine‑presence term, not a physical act. And Gabriel reinforces this by citing Elizabeth’s naturally impossible conception — a miracle, not intercourse.
Your RCC predisposition is forcing you to reinterpret this verse. Her question is simple. How can I get pregnant since I am not sexually active? Gabriel tells her the Holy Ghost will impregnate her.
Neeither Mary nor Gabriel even remotely implied conception was impossible. Just that she was not active so she did not know how she could get pregnant. That is all.
Well the Holy spirit did not take on the form of a man and have physical sex with Mary. His presence was enough to do the job. so that is a red herring.
She expected relations with Joseph but wanted to know HOW this would result in the birth of the Messiah. The angel clarified it would not be by normal relations but by the Holy Spirit. Your logic is faulty.You’re responding to a claim I never made. I’m not arguing that Mary believed She would never know a man. I’m saying that according to your own position, She expected future marital relations with Joseph — and therefore conception would have been entirely possible under Her expected future circumstances.
If conception was possible, Her natural question would be “When?” But She asks “How?” — which only makes sense if conception is impossible under those expected circumstances.
She expected relations with Joseph but wanted to know HOW this would result in the birth of the Messiah. The angel clarified it would not be by normal relations but by the Holy Spirit. Your logic is faulty.
You claiming to raise a textual issue doesn't mean you actually have. The text has been explained with proper exegesis. It disproves your eisegeses of the text. If what you say is true she would have said "How can this be since I will never know a man"
Moonwood said:But none of this addresses the textual point I’m raising. You’re asserting “She doesn’t,” “No,” and “Your speculation,” but you’re not engaging the actual argument or the narrative logic in Luke.
Mary’s question is recorded as: “How will this be, since I do not know a man?” That is a mechanism question, not a timing question. If Mary expected future relations with Joseph, conception is not impossible — only not yet. In that situation the natural question would be “When?” not “How?” And since Gabriel never tells Mary when She will conceive, She would have even more reason to ask “When?” if this were simply a matter of pre‑consummation timing. Yet She does not ask “When,” but “How,” which only makes sense if She sees conception as impossible under Her expected future circumstances.
You created an “if -future” narrative of WHEN… then imply WHEN isn’t your point.If Mary expected normal marital relations with Joseph, why do both Mary and Gabriel speak as though conception is impossible without divine intervention?
Your argument has decayed to the absurd. There is no "tension" except in your own mind.Your explanation doesn’t match the text or your own position.
You say:
“She expected relations with Joseph but wanted to know HOW this would result in the birth of the Messiah.”
But that is not what Mary asks.
Mary does not ask:
She asks:
- “How will this child be the Messiah?”
- “How will Joseph’s son fulfill prophecy?”
- “How will the promise be accomplished?”
“How will this occur, since I do not know man?”
That is a question about conception itself, not about the child’s identity.
If Mary expects future marital relations with Joseph—as you say She does—then:
A mechanism question only makes sense if conception is impossible under Her expected future circumstances.
- conception is possible under Her expected future,
- the mechanism (sexual relations) is already known,
- so the only natural question would be “When?”, not “How?”.
And Gabriel’s answer confirms that:
None of that fits your scenario where Mary expects conception through Joseph.
- he gives a miraculous, non‑sexual mechanism,
- he parallels it with Elizabeth’s impossible conception,
- he concludes with “For with God nothing will be impossible.”
If Mary simply wondered how Joseph’s child could be the Messiah, Gabriel would have answered with identity, mission, or prophecy. Instead he answers with biological mechanism, because that is what Mary is asking about.
So your explanation requires Mary to be confused about Messiahship, but Mary is clearly confused about conception.
Your logic doesn’t resolve the tension— it actually reinforces it.
Your argument has decayed to the absurd. There is no "tension" except in your own mind.
Moonwood said:
My point is simply that Mary’s question only makes sense if She sees conception as impossible under Her expected future circumstances. If She anticipated normal marital relations, conception wouldn’t be impossible —
You created an “if -future” narrative of WHEN… then imply WHEN isn’t your point.
You claim by Speculation Mary and Gabriel were without understanding, (when there is no scriptural indication)…regarding what method of Another Pregancy would apply to Mary in her future…
Your question is twisted with presumptions that do not Scripturally exist, while claiming to be sticking to Scripture.
Scripture tells you …
Who
What
When
Why
How
A single event regarding Mary and a super natural pregancy.
Why would Mary ask WHEN, if she already knew WHEN?She does not ask “When,” but “How,” which only makes sense if She sees conception as impossible under Her expected future circumstances.
Appealing to “
If conception was possible, Her natural question would be “When?”
Why would Mary ask WHEN, if she already knew WHEN?
Why is her question of HOW a stumbling block for you…and you presenting “What you think she should have asked”… a question you think others should answer for you?
There is no "textual tension" nor "textual questions ".But none of this addresses the textual point I’m raising. You’re asserting “She doesn’t,” “No,” and “Your speculation,” but you’re not engaging the actual argument or the narrative logic in Luke.
Mary’s question is recorded as: “How will this be, since I do not know a man?” That is a mechanism question, not a timing question. If Mary expected future relations with Joseph, conception is not impossible — only not yet. In that situation the natural question would be “When?” not “How?” And since Gabriel never tells Mary when She will conceive, She would have even more reason to ask “When?” if this were simply a matter of pre‑consummation timing. Yet She does not ask “When,” but “How,” which only makes sense if She sees conception as impossible under Her expected future circumstances.
Appealing to “spiritual understanding” or redefining “when” as “the moment of agreement” doesn’t resolve the textual tension. Luke presents Mary’s question as a response to the angel’s announcement, and the wording matters. Gabriel answers Her “How?” by describing a miraculous, non‑sexual conception and by pointing to Elizabeth’s naturally impossible conception. None of that fits a scenario where Mary expects natural conception through Joseph.
So the textual question remains, and it hasn’t been answered:
If Mary expected normal marital relations with Joseph, why do both Mary and Gabriel speak as though conception is impossible without divine intervention?
I’m not asking for Scripture to satisfy my logic — I’m asking for Scripture to be read on its own terms.
Prove with the text what Mary expected.So the textual question remains, and it hasn’t been answered:
If Mary expected normal marital relations with Joseph,
Quote the text that Mary and Gabriel say conception is impossible without divine intervention.why do both Mary and Gabriel speak as though conception is impossible without divine intervention?
I see no point you are making beyond IF and You deciding what Mary “should have asked”.You’re misunderstanding the point I’m making.
I’m not claiming Mary didn’t know the timing. I’m saying that under your own position — where Mary expects future marital relations with Joseph —
Prove with the text what Mary expected.
Quote the text that Mary and Gabriel say conception is impossible without divine intervention.
No I have not said that… But I have no reason to disagree with that.I’m not asking you to accept any speculation. I’m asking you to follow the narrative logic in Luke. You asked for two things, so let me answer both directly from the text.
1. “Prove with the text what Mary expected.”
The text itself shows Mary expected normal marital relations with Joseph:
Your own position affirms this: you and others have repeatedly said Mary expected future relations with Joseph.
- She is betrothed (Luke 1:27).
- Betrothal in Jewish custom is a binding marital contract that includes the expectation of consummation.
- Nothing in the text suggests Mary believed she would never consummate the marriage.
Future is WHEN… that you skirted that was a point of yours.So I’m not inventing anything — I’m using your own premise.
Under that premise, conception is possible under Mary’s expected future circumstances.
Why? …you seem put off as if scripture shortchanged you …for Mary not asking what “you do not know”.And if conception is possible, Her natural question would be “When?”, not “How?”.
She asked How… and didn’t even need your approval…2. “Quote the text that Mary and Gabriel say conception is impossible without divine intervention.”
Mary’s own words:
“How will this be, since I do not know man?” (Luke 1:34)
No. she already knew when.That is a mechanism question, not a timing question.
She is asking how conception itself will occur, not when it will occur.
If She expected future relations with Joseph, conception is not impossible — only not yet.
In that case, “How?” makes no sense. She would ask “When?”
And?Gabriel’s answer:
“The Holy Spirit will come upon you… the power of the Most High will overshadow you.” (Luke 1:35)
That is a miraculous, non‑sexual mechanism — not “you will conceive when you and Joseph consummate the marriage.”
So?Gabriel then gives the parallel:
“Elizabeth… who was called barren.” (Luke 1:36)
Elizabeth’s conception was impossible under normal circumstances.
And Gabriel concludes:
“For with God nothing will be impossible.” (Luke 1:37)
Not impossible … is construed in your mind to mean Impossible?That is the language of impossibility, not “normal conception will happen later.”
So yes — the text itself frames the conception as impossible without divine intervention:
Making up scenarios you think should appear in Scripture doesn’t make it appear.Simply denying it doesn’t make it disappear.
No I have not said that…
1. “Prove with the text what Mary expected.”
The text itself shows Mary expected normal marital relations with Joseph:
Your own position affirms this: you and others have repeatedly said Mary expected future relations with Joseph.
- She is betrothed (Luke 1:27).
- Betrothal in Jewish custom is a binding marital contract that includes the expectation of consummation.
- Nothing in the text suggests Mary believed she would never consummate the marriage.
So I’m not inventing anything — I’m using your own premise.
Under that premise, conception is possible under Mary’s expected future circumstances.
And if conception is possible, Her natural question would be “When?”, not “How?”.
Future is WHEN… that you skirted that was a a point of yours.
2. “Quote the text that Mary and Gabriel say conception is impossible without divine intervention.”
Mary’s own words:
“How will this be, since I do not know man?” (Luke 1:34)
That is a mechanism question, not a timing question.
She is asking how conception itself will occur, not when it will occur.
If She expected future relations with Joseph, conception is not impossible — only not yet.
In that case, “How?” makes no sense. She would ask “When?”
Gabriel’s answer:
“The Holy Spirit will come upon you… the power of the Most High will overshadow you.” (Luke 1:35)
That is a miraculous, non‑sexual mechanism — not “you will conceive when you and Joseph consummate the marriage.”
Gabriel then gives the parallel:
“Elizabeth… who was called barren.” (Luke 1:36)
Elizabeth’s conception was impossible under normal circumstances.
And Gabriel concludes:
“For with God nothing will be impossible.” (Luke 1:37)
That is the language of impossibility, not “normal conception will happen later.”
So yes — the text itself frames the conception as impossible without divine intervention:
None of that fits a scenario where Mary expects conception through Joseph.
- Mary asks how conception will occur at all.
- Gabriel gives a miraculous mechanism.
- Gabriel cites another impossible conception.
- Gabriel concludes with “nothing will be impossible.”
So the tension remains:
Under your own premise (Mary expects future marital relations with Joseph), conception is possible — so She should ask “When?”.
But the text gives us:
That is the textual tension I’m pointing out.
- Mary asking “How?”,
- Gabriel answering with a miracle,
- and Gabriel framing the event as impossible without divine intervention.
Simply denying it doesn’t make it disappear.
And?
Did you think every female requires an angel to visit to be informed of timing of if or When they will have children?
So?
Not impossible … is construed in your mind to mean Impossible?
Weird.
No.
Making up scenarios you think should appear in Scripture doesn’t make it appear.
This doesn’t answer the point.“Did you think every female requires an angel to visit to be informed of timing…?”
That does not engage Gabriel’s parallel to Elizabeth.“So?”
Gabriel says:“Not impossible … is construed in your mind to mean Impossible? Weird.”
He is explaining why Mary’s conception will happen — precisely because it is impossible under normal circumstances.“For with God nothing will be impossible.”
A bare denial is not an argument. It does not address:“No.”
I’m not making up anything. I’m quoting the text:“Making up scenarios you think should appear in Scripture doesn’t make it appear.”