I would say Revelation 14:14 is the rapture of living believers to heaven. Jesus does not set foot on the earth at that time, but it still is an appearance. That is a coming.
Revelation 19:11 is the return of Jesus to earth with all believers who have ever lived. That is a coming.
I would say Jesus's birth was a coming, since what was in Mary was the direct action of the living Jesus to earth of God the Father (Matthew 1:20).
Likewise I suppose his departure from the grave was a coming, since he appeared to many witnesses before returning to God the Father.
He is a busy person.
Rev 14;14,15 is not the gathering of the bride.
It is a gathering of the Jews.
That gathering has 144,000 JEWISH FIRSTFRUITS.
The rapture has Jesus as its firdtfruits.
In rev 14;14,15 there is no resurrection.
In the rapture, the dead rise first.
In rev 14;14,15, the firstfruit Jews are gathered first.
The elephant in the room is the OMISSION of:
1) the time off the Gentiles ending and the time of the gentiles fulfilled.
2) the bride dynamic which is nowhere in revelation fourteen
3) at the rapture the dead in christ rise first
4) in revelation thirteen, the AC is given power over the saints. And everyone not written in the book, refusing the mark is MARTYRED.
So that right there is before.
The gathering of revelation fourteen.
3 VIVID, DISTINCT, DOCTRINE SHATTERING, THEORY SHATTERING, COMINGS.
1) The rapture pretrib that Jesus taught.
2) the gathering of the Jews in rev 14;14,15.
3) the second coming on white horses.