You know, TV has kind of made everyone the same.if you identify with your biological family and do not leave them to become one though (either by marriage or the...less socially accepted route), you will likely love your family in the way that hate your family is addressing.
but this is not for you i guess
you are Italian :)
When I used to come here in the 60's I felt like I was in Italy.
No ketchup.
No potatoe chips.
NOW, I don't know WHAT COUNTRY I'm in!
We mostly leave our family and then start a new one.
But, I know what you mean, it's all messed up.
THIS IS WHY it's important to follow God's rules.
But who cares anymore??