You are defining love by the culture. Was Jesus loving when he called the Pharisees a brood of vipers? I preach the truth. You seem to mistake love for not offending someone.
Do Not Offend
You are far from acting like Jesus to do not compare yourself with Him; and as far as knowing truth, you prefer false teachers.
You act just like what Paul calls a babe in Christ full of carnality. Here is a verse in the next book that shows they had repented, but it should also give you pause about your assurance.
2 Corinthians 7:
8 For even if I made you sorry with my letter, I do not regret it; though I did regret it. For I perceive that the same epistle made you sorry, though only for a while. 9 Now I rejoice, not that you were made sorry, but that your sorrow led to repentance. For you were made sorry in a godly manner, that you might suffer loss from us in nothing. 10 For
godly sorrow produces repentance leading to salvation, not to be regretted; but the sorrow of the world produces death.