That thinking is absolutely crazy! You think God's Wrath was meant for Lord Jesus??? What an absolutely un-Biblical idea, and even akin to blasphemy! You really don't understand God's Word at all. Where did you pick up such an idea as that? If they preach that at the Church you've been going to, run, don't walk, out of that beth-aven (church of vanity) and don't look back!
When our Lord Jesus died upon His cross, that was NOT about God's Wrath. God's wrath is for the end of this world upon the wicked, the unbelieving, the abominable, murderers, and whoremongers, sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars (Rev.21:8). You think our Lord Jesus was guilty of any of that?
Even when Jesus on the cross said, "Eli, Eli, lama sabachthani" (My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me), He was really still teaching while upon the cross, because He was quoting directly from Psalms 22 which first mentioned the prophecy of His coming to be put to death.
Ps 22:1
22:1 My God, my God, why hast Thou forsaken me? why art Thou so far from helping me, and from the words of my roaring?
KJV