I'm just giving her back what she gives me with calvin when I never once mention him and I'm not a follower of his even though there might be some similarities with total depravity. But James Armimius ( founder of Arminians) taught the very same thing.
And I believe Scripture declares in numerous places there is none who does good no not one, there is none righteous no not one, man is dead in his trespasses and sins, a slave to sin and sin is his master, and man is born of the world and the ruler of this world they are under until God draws, enables and regenerates man. Until then man cannot do a thing about his natural condition in sin.
hope this helps !!!