I think there is a dangerous error going on here. It's one thing to acknowledge and accept that there are certain clear paradoxes in the Bible that make us look at them harder, but I can refute the last couple posts with two passages of Scripture:
Hebrews 10:26-31
For if we go on sinning deliberately after receiving the knowledge of the truth, there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins, but a fearful expectation of judgment, and a fury of fire that will consume the adversaries. Anyone who has set aside the law of Moses dies without mercy on the evidence of two or three witnesses. How much worse punishment, do you think, will be deserved by the one who has trampled underfoot the Son of God, and has profaned the blood of the covenant by which he was sanctified, and has outraged the Spirit of grace? For we know him who said, “Vengeance is mine; I will repay.” And again, “The Lord will judge his people.” It is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God.
Before the objection is raised that the phrase "knowledge of the truth" is rejected as just knowledge as in saying "I heard about Jesus, and reject his offer," let's let the Bible do the talking on it:
I Timothy 2:3-4
This is good, and it is pleasing in the sight of God our Savior, who desires all people to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth.
Several letters were written by Paul himself dealing with churches that had gone astray. If that was not a danger, then rather clearly, the letters would never have been written.
As to the argument about a line-item-veto-style of repentence for sin - I don't think Angelina is arguing that we need to go back to when we were 14 years old and our eyes wondered a little too much on that attractive dude or chick. That's attempting to polarize the argument that it has to be one way or the other. Salvation is not just a one off "I'm sorry God" moment where we are forgiven. A relationship with Jesus is a daily relationship and a continual struggle as Paul illustrated. Our sins are blotted out, but that's not license to rack 'em up in the meantime. There is no divine "just kidding" on the whole hell part.