Why couldn’t Paul have simply been using language similar to the OT?
What do you mean by that exactly? What language in the OT is similar to the description of Jesus coming from heaven, the dead then being resurrected and then they, along with those who are alive and remain being caught up to meet Christ in the air? What indication is there that any of that shouldn't be taken literally?
Are you willing to dig deeper on this so that you can understand the context of 2 Thessalonians 2 in terms of what it all centers around (the second coming of Christ when His people will be gathered to Him in the air)?
There is no clear distinct shift, contextually, grammatically, or lexically to indicate “all these things” only refer to some and not all the events.
It's sad to me that you can't believe anything unless it is explicitly spelled out to you. Do you really think that nothing in scripture can be implied?
Jesus indicated that the wars, rumors of wars, famines, pestilences and earthquakes He referenced would only be the beginning of birth pains and would not be indications that the end was at hand. So, "all these things" that Jesus said would indicate that His second coming was near cannot include those things.
But, you might try to argue that Jesus was only saying those things would not mean that His second coming had arrived, not that His second coming wasn't near.
Think about this in the context of birth pains. Jesus said the occurrence of those things would only be the beginning of birth pains. When a woman first experiences birth pains, can it be said that the birth of the baby is near? No woman would say that. Not in relation to how long it is between the beginning of birth pains and the end of birth pains. Birth pains generally take anywhere from 12 to 24 hours for a first child and usually a bit less for the second child and so on. But, the point is that, relatively speaking, that's a long time for a woman to experience birth pains. So, I'm sure any woman would laugh if someone told her that the birth of her baby was near right after her birth pains begin.
Look at this...
Romans 8:18 I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us. 19 For the creation waits in eager expectation for the children of God to be revealed. 20 For the creation was subjected to frustration, not by its own choice, but by the will of the one who subjected it, in hope 21 that the creation itself will be liberated from its bondage to decay and brought into the freedom and glory of the children of God. 22
We know that the whole creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time. 23 Not only so, but we ourselves, who have the firstfruits of the Spirit, groan inwardly as we wait eagerly for our adoption to sonship, the redemption of our bodies.
In this passage Paul referred figuratively to the whole creation experiencing birth pains for thousands of years "right up to the present time". So, when Jesus talks about "the beginning of birth pains", He's not just talking things happening during a short period of time preceding the destruction of Jerusalem in 70 AD.
Your only argument is external framework to claim otherwise. In otherwords, it didn’t Happen according to your framework, therefore, you insert a gap into the OD as best as you can despite there being no, grammatical, contextual, or lexical reason to do so.
So what? Is there something wrong with having a framework that is based on all of scripture that you stick to in an effort to not cause any contradictions in scripture? Of course not.
the point is, It’s a gathering, post destruction of the city, into the wedding feast.
No, it isn't. It's a gathering of the elect from both heaven and earth (Mark 13:27) that happens at the time Jesus comes and not over the course of time after 70 AD. Who are the elect that are gathered from heaven for the wedding feast? The parable in Matthew 22:1-13 has to do with people on earth being invited to the wedding and has nothing to do with the gathering of anyone from heaven.
In Matthew, There are 2 gathering mentioned post the destruction of Jerusalem- Matthew 24 and Matthew 22. Matthew 24 makes no mention of “into the air” so those details are less important to me.
Why would you have no interest in reconciling all scripture which speaks of the second coming of Christ? There is no third coming of Christ, so it's impossible that Matthew 24 is speaking of some other coming of Christ than passages like 2 Thessalonians 2:1-3 is referring to.
Also, Matthew 24 doesn’t mention a gathering of the wicked, does this mean the resurrection of the wicked is unrelated to Matthew 24, according to your framework?
Do you not understand that Matthew 25 is also part of the Olivet Discourse? The gathering of the wicked is mentioned there. And Jesus makes it clear that both the righteous and the wicked will be gathered at the same time, not over the course of time starting in 70 AD.
Like I’ve said, I think it makes sense and is likely that Paul is talking about the same thing in both his letters to the Thessalonians.
Okay, so that means it should be worth your time to try to determine what event he is talking about when He talks about Jesus coming, the dead in Christ being resurrected and His people being gathered to Him in the air. How is it possible that event has already occurred? I see no possibility that it could have already occurred. The onus is on you to prove otherwise if you want to prove that 2 Thessalonians 2 relates to what happened in 70 AD.
Does Matthew 24 mention a resurrection of the dead and gathering “into the air”?
No. So what? Does every passage that refers to the second coming of Christ need to contain every detail related to that event? Of course not.