Well, I don't have any articles to present to you but I do have this:I'm sure you know about the statements of the Apostle Paul in that we should find unity (Ephesians 4:13 and Romans 16:17 come to mind). Paul was a very wise man divinely governed by God I'd have to argue. We should all seek unity in Christ without a doubt.However, Christ himself acknowledge that we might not all necessarily (and in reality, will not) come to agreement on issues:Luke 12:51-53Suppose ye that I am come to give peace on earth? I tell you, Nay; but rather division: For from henceforth there shall be five in one house divided, three against two, and two against three. The father shall be divided against the son, and the son against the father; the mother against the daughter, and the daughter against the mother; the mother in law against her daughter in law, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.Now if you can find a person that absolutely agrees with you on everything you say then you have found a rarity. The simple fact is that the Word itself is very divisive to us. I mean these are some very close relationships listed above in what Christ said because this is such a passionate issue.My final advice is this. Ultimately each person is responsible for his/her salvation and disagreeing on minor issues is going to happen. Obviously, you want your spouse (or loved one for others) to find the truth and they desire the same. I think you have to compromise on some things and maybe agree to disagree in some areas. I'm not a counselor or anything and I don't want to get caught up in speaking for relationships in general by any means, but if you're going through knock-down drag out fights over the Bible than that's something to consider. Take that for what it's worth. If you're just sparring a bit over the issues, that's going to happen.