Amen on both CARM and CF. CF seems to have about six or eight good people, and none of them are Mods.My experience: CARM is a absolutely horrible place and the only people the mods allow on people who sing perfectly with the chorus CARM wants. No other tones/beliefs are tolerated.
CF is a bad place that had a certain mindset and would rather enforce biased/unfair rules rather than care about people. There are good people on there, but it is a few head mods that force the terrible agenda-driven bias.
Don't go anywhere you're not welcomed. There are plenty of other site out there.