Looks as if they are going to introduce a bill in parliament for this, it was voted for yesterday and got approved.
I honestly sit in the middle with some of it , watching many suffer makes you aware that end of life is horrible sometimes. Also are we sometimes contributing to that death by putting in drivers with morphine in it anyway, we know it speeds things up.
Life/ Death is complicated with all the medical help available for sustains life , do we play God anyway.
Be interested in your views - do they ever discuss this issue in your countries ?
Would you vote for or against it ?
Would you want that option if you had terminal cancer, or dementia or a progressive illness that would make you decline in an awful way ?
Just to give context, at the moment it will only be those with 6months or less to live that will be given the option., However I think, in time, it could change and become a slippery slope
I have not read this whole thread, so forgive me if this is already known. I am not in one of the states where it is legal- however it happens and it had nothing to do with 6 mos to live.
My mom was a JW, so she had an extensive medical directive due to their complicated blood doctrine. .which just recently changed again.
She had a stroke in 2019- she was conscious though and could speak although we could not understand her. They said she was paralyzed on her right side. Her medical directive said-
no life sustaining measures
Well, the same exact thing happened to her mother in the 90s, so I knew what to expect. She would need therapy- the sooner the better if she was to be given a chance to recover her speech--She would need care round the clock... assistance in personal hygiene, wheel chair bound, etc.. My grandmother lived 10 years that way.
Then, a doctor said that my mom could not swallow. I thought she could, and my sister gave my mom ice chips which she chewed and swallowed all day. But they refused to give her any food to see. My one sibling and I tried to convince them to give her something to eat again and again, but they refused. They said she would choke. We even argued that she was in the perfect setting to be helped if she did choke. They simply would not hear us.
They also refused to give her any therapy to recover her speech. She talked a lot, and was full of energy- but none of it was discernable to anyone.
I had been shunned for many years due to not being a JW, so I didn't really feel I had a say in this any further. My mom would not have wanted me involved. So, I stepped back and let my JW siblings make the decisions from then on. I was there if they wanted to include me, but they did not.
It was decided to put my mom in hospice, and she was given no water and no food. She suffered and died a little over a week later. My one JW sibling disagreed with them the entire time- and they fought- but it was 4 to 2, and my mom had given authority to decide care to her youngest child.
So, we watched her struggle and suffer until her kidneys failed from no water. She was given something that made her sleep, but she woke frequently and cried out and feel back to sleep.
They gave her morphine when the death rattle came- which seems to have stopped her heart.
I saw all of this as awful of course--
I saw it as killing her because there was no other way to see it.
She would have been disabled- yes. The youngest who made the final decision said she would not want to live disabled. The clincher was the "inability to swallow" which was considered life- sustaining. I will never know why no one would let her try to eat.
I don't know when it became legal to decide this stuff but clearly it happens. The nurses were very matter of fact- none of it was abnormal to them.
I don't know anymore what to think. I do agree that my mom didn't want to live the way her mother did. It was hard. Was that up to her? But could she eat? I will never know.
I do know that they killed her. There is no way around that.
Edited to add- my mom recognized all of us - she even yelled at me which was the norm although in gibberish, so as far we could see there was no brain damage other than her speech. My grandmother had the same issue. Therapy helped her speech some.