Robbie my friend, your logic is dizzying.
Okay, obviously you're on your own path and happy with it, despite it not really making any sense. Sorry, but truly it doesn't. Admitting to looking at porn is okay, because it's just being honest about your male desires? Let's just take a step back here...remember the fall...remember sin? Now how about the fact that you're married, but instead of solely using your 'normal male desires' in the wonderful covenant of marriage, you look at naked women...strange woman. Nothing wrong about that at all...completely normal. And I suppose you then think that if anyone just comes clean and open about their 'natures' it's all okay?? How about the paedophile?
Robbie man, I'm so worried about you. Yes, the church is full of hypocrites...it's full of sinners. You know what we had to do to become Christians? We had to stick up our hands and say "I suck so bad there is no way I can save myself...Jesus, I need you". None of us are perfect, and yes, some 'Christians' are false and a terrible testament to Jesus...it's shameful. But that's on them, not on Jesus, and the Church that he tells us is his bride. There are so many genuine Christians out there, all struggling, all striving to put sin to death. We're not perfect either, but we love Jesus and we love our brothers and sisters in Christ....and I'm so concerned for you that having hit a group of 'religious' Christians, you've chosen the world over the Church. Yes, you're friend are probably very free with their 'natural urges'...but that will not save them....in fact Jesus tells us that in a way, in their 'freedom', they're actually enslaved to various Idols...sex, money...mateship. It can be anything. If you value 'being honest to the point of sin' then you are worshipping that, not Jesus. Jesus wants you to be honest, but he wants you to put sin to death....and dude, porn fits squarely in the 'sexual immorality' drawer. Anything sexual outside of marriage is sin...
You probably don't want to hear this word, but I'm worried for you. Lately you've been getting so fired up...over nothing sometimes. We are you at Robbie? Do you really follow Jesus...and I'm talking all of what Jesus taught...not just the bits that make you feel good and free. Jesus said sexual immorality is sin...you say its normal. Where are you really at Robbie? Am praying for you.