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313) 1Tim 5:14 . . I will that younger women marry, have children, manage
their homes, and to give the enemy no opportunity for slander.
The Greek word for "younger" actually means new and unused; so I'd say
that Paul's orders are for girls not yet married and settled down, and maybe
thinking of putting all that off awhile for careers, adventure, and/or
whatever.
A very real danger for unattached girls is immorality. Desire, loneliness, and
longings for appreciation, have a way of building up to unbearable levels in
people who live alone; and just about that time, along comes a really great
somebody who maybe breaks down their defenses and gets a little too3
chummy. That can be a difficult moment.
● 1Cor 7:2 . . To avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let
every woman have her own husband.
NOTE: Immorality isn't the only danger related to long-term celibacy. Those
who've decided on that path need to think rationally and objectively about
their future; and ask themselves: Do I really want to live out my youth
without someone; alone and unloved in the world? Can I bear up without a
nervous break-down and/or turning to alcohol, Prozac, and overeating? Will I
become irritable and difficult, and/or end up resenting the existence of men
like aunt Lucy?
Have to be brutally honest with these questions because one's mental health
is on the line here. It's very possible for a woman to wake up one day and
realize, with terrible regret, that the aging process has set in and she's
allowed the very best years of life for love and family to slip through her
fingers.
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313) 1Tim 5:14 . . I will that younger women marry, have children, manage
their homes, and to give the enemy no opportunity for slander.
The Greek word for "younger" actually means new and unused; so I'd say
that Paul's orders are for girls not yet married and settled down, and maybe
thinking of putting all that off awhile for careers, adventure, and/or
whatever.
A very real danger for unattached girls is immorality. Desire, loneliness, and
longings for appreciation, have a way of building up to unbearable levels in
people who live alone; and just about that time, along comes a really great
somebody who maybe breaks down their defenses and gets a little too3
chummy. That can be a difficult moment.
● 1Cor 7:2 . . To avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let
every woman have her own husband.
NOTE: Immorality isn't the only danger related to long-term celibacy. Those
who've decided on that path need to think rationally and objectively about
their future; and ask themselves: Do I really want to live out my youth
without someone; alone and unloved in the world? Can I bear up without a
nervous break-down and/or turning to alcohol, Prozac, and overeating? Will I
become irritable and difficult, and/or end up resenting the existence of men
like aunt Lucy?
Have to be brutally honest with these questions because one's mental health
is on the line here. It's very possible for a woman to wake up one day and
realize, with terrible regret, that the aging process has set in and she's
allowed the very best years of life for love and family to slip through her
fingers.
_