No. Loving according to how God loves defines your God. Jesus said that in the verse I quoted: "As I have loved you...". The world does not love like the Son and the Father love. Not even close. Most Christians don't know this so they think do-good atheists are better at loving than some Christians are.
Well, then you don't believe Christ:
"...no branch can bear fruit by itself unless it remains in the vine, neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in Me." John 15:4
Yet you claim atheist and false religion 'branches' do bear fruit. Better than Christ's branches even! As I've pointed out, what you actually don't understand is the difference between how God loves and how the self-centric atheist and false religionist loves. That is the fruit the 'branches' of the lost world can not produce, because they are not connected to and nourished by the vine of Christ. (Maybe we'll come back to this 15th chapter of John.)
I understand this perfectly. I expected this very argument to be raised, and this is the verse I was reserving for just such an argument:
"...not as a new commandment to you, but one we have had from the beginning—that we love one another." 2 John 1:5
It's 'new' in revelation, not in it's appearing (1 John 2:7-8). It's visible with the eyes of the Spirit in this New Covenant, not with the eyes of law in the old covenant. Even though it is, itself, a law. Ironic, isn't it?