I'm not sure what you are meaning by this... but I do mind my own business... I do not tell people how to live... and I totally agree what happens between sinner and Creator is sacred ground and as a general rule... NONE of anyone's business...Instead taking in our own responsibility of just not trying to get in others business instead try and mind their own business.
I am constantly defending the right to working out our own salvation without abusive correction and busy body Christians meddling in others' affairs... It's a pet peeve of mine actually.... HOWEVER... this is NOT that topic...
When I say I blame the CHURCH... for not ISSUING forth CLEAR statements regarding HOW a Christian is to live... that is a separate issue...
If someone is a practicing Christian and they think ( have been taught) that it is ok to live in sin... or engage in sexual relations before marriage... and or shack up together.... THAT is a DANGEROUS PROBLEM... and a definite lack of proper Christian teaching.
WE live in a world where anything goes.... but that does not change the fact that SIN is sin.