Sadly, this is very true. I've been a member of multiple Christian forum sites for over 10 years now and running into legalists is not uncommon.
I have been a member of various different Christian forums over the past 10 years, and I have ran into “
Sin and Still Be Saved Type Believers” like yourself over the years. In fact, it is the predominant viewpoint that is pushed on most general Christian forums. Yes, you are not “
Hyper Grace”
(in that you say you can live in a lifestyle of sin and still be saved), but you are for what I call, “
Partial Hyper Grace” (in that you preach a double message in that on one hand you appear to be for holy living yet on the other hand you interpret 1 John 1:8 as meaning believers will always sin this side of Heaven in some way - even though it may not be classified as practicing sin).
Partial Hyper Grace is simply a smoke screen in justifying sin (Which is a position I believe you hold to) because it has a wrong view of what happens when you sin. In other words, many of you in the Partial Hyper Grace camp say that when you sin, you don't believe you lose your salvation and or that you are in danger of spiritual death. While this may not be you, some in your camp will say that confessing sin is not necessary. But the Bible makes it clear that we are to confess and forsake sin in order to have mercy (Proverbs 28:13).
Jesus Himself said,
“but whosoever shall say, Thou fool,
shall be in danger of hell fire.” (Matthew 5:22).
In your viewpoint: You don't believe the words of Jesus. Your Once Saved Always Saved, and there is no danger of hell fire ever (Which runs contrary to the words of Jesus). You ultimately believe sin does not endanger your soul or that it can kill you spiritually (after you are saved by God's grace).
Here are a test questions to see whether or not you are promoting the concept of turning God's grace into a license for immorality (Jude 1:4):
(1) Was King David saved before he fell into adultery and murder? YES or NO.
(2) Was King David still saved while in adultery and murder and before he repented? YES or NO.
(3) Had King David died physically when in adultery and murder would he have gone to hell? YES or NO.
(4) Is it possible that a real Christian can lose his salvation? YES or NO.
(5) Did Peter lose his salvation when he disowned Jesus three times? YES or NO.
(6) Did Solomon lose his salvation when his heart turned to idolatry? YES or NO.
You also promoted on another website the false teachings of Ray Comfort of Living Waters (who clearly teaches turning God's grace into a license to sin like you believe) (
here is the post).
This article link here exposes Ray's license for immorality:
RAY COMFORT | Living Waters | Hell's Best Kept Secret
(Note: Many of your posts are not searchable on ChristianForums. While this is most likely due to your hiding your profile, and it may not have been your intention, but the reality is that by doing so: It simply makes you look you are trying to hide what you write at times). No doubt this is in your favor because you ultimately teach a license to sin under God's grace on a smaller level. Anyways, I was fortunate to find at least one of our previous arguments at CF.
Sins Not Unto Death
Protestantism (Perpetual Belief Alone Salvationism) is the second largest branch of Christianity (with close to 1 billion adherents). However, Jesus said narrow is the way that leads unto life and few be there that find it (Matthew 7:14). Meaning, your way is not the true narrow way.
In your view, you don't really have to strive to enter the straight gate. You are changed by a one time prayer and you don't need to ever worry about anything anymore. You believe God will just help you to live sort of holy while you secretly teach that believers can sin and still be saved.
In your view: It is legalism to obey God by faith (after we are saved by God's grace), and we continue in His grace. You see faith only as a belief and you cut out the word “works” when it comes to describing our faith (even though many of you will admit that the whole of your New Testament is all a part of the faith). You just hate works so badly that you remove “works” from the faith (By saying that works is not faith), and then you contradict yourself and say it is the evidence of your faith. You don't think you have to continue in the faith, or continue in God's grace or keep yourself in the love of God (even though the Bible says these things).
The Gotquestions article is a perfect example of the unbiblical nonsense you believe.
Is a backsliding Christian still saved? | GotQuestions.org
The article states that while a believer is characterized by living a holy life, they also double speak and contradict themselves on upholding that standard of morality by saying that a believer who has backslidden into a lifestyle of sin is still saved. This means that they believe the prodigal son who was living it up with prostitutes was still saved (Even though the father in the parable said his son was
dead and he was
alive again when he came back home seeking forgiveness with him).
You said:
Many of these people are 'spiritual narcissists' and instead of promoting Christ, such people exploit Christ in order to promote themselves.
I am sure you are implying me in this conversation. This is yet another false accusation by you (if this is directed towards me) to simply uplift yourself. I am not seeking to promote myself but Jesus Christ and His Word. But Jesus said we would be accused falsely in Matthew 5:10-11. In fact, this would not be your first false accusation against me (if it is directed towards me) without you even apologizing (after I exposed your accusations openly).
You mention narcissists (as if to imply I may be one).
Symptoms of narcissists (According to Mayo Clinic):
- Have an exaggerated sense of self-importance
- Have a sense of entitlement and require constant, excessive admiration
- Expect to be recognized as superior even without achievements that warrant it
- Exaggerate achievements and talents
- Be preoccupied with fantasies about success, power, brilliance, beauty or the perfect mate
- Believe they are superior and can only associate with equally special people
- Monopolize conversations and belittle or look down on people they perceive as inferior
- Expect special favors and unquestioning compliance with their expectations
- Take advantage of others to get what they want
- Have an inability or unwillingness to recognize the needs and feelings of others
- Be envious of others and believe others envy them
- Behave in an arrogant or haughty manner, coming across as conceited, boastful and pretentious
- Insist on having the best of everything — for instance, the best car or office
In good conscience, I cannot say I even remotely fall under these things listed above (as you have implied). I believe in judging myself constantly and in striving to do better and I will apologize even openly when I am wrong about something. I believe in working out my salvation with fear and trembling and I don't think I am guaranteed Heaven (While everyone else will be unsaved). I believe I must also strive to enter the straight gate (just like everyone else). I admit when I am wrong. I have done this even with discussing the Bible when somebody has pointed out when I have gotten a Bible interpretation wrong over the years. I also realize that I am nothing, and Christ is everything, as well. I am merely a messenger of God's Word and the Lord Jesus deserves all the glory. I don't believe I should have the best of everything. My treasures are not here upon this earth but I always strive to put them in Heaven (living a daily sacrifice of my life unto the Lord).
So if your accusation was directed towards me (of which it sounds like it was because we have been in recent discussion in this thread in strong disagreement on this topic), then you are falsely accusing the brethren. So if that is the case, an apology would be the appropriate and good thing to do.
Article source used in this post:
Narcissistic personality disorder - Symptoms and causes.