1- I'm blunt and strong too as all Christians should be..:)-
"Pray also for me, that whenever I open my mouth, words may be given me so that I will fearlessly make known the mystery of the gospel...Pray that I may declare it fearlessly, as I should" (Ephesians 6:19-20)
"For God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, of love and of selfdiscipline" (2 Timothy 1:7)
"The word of God is alive, powerful, and sharper than a sword" (Hebrews 4:12)
2- I'm a joker and prankster like you because I can't take this temporary world seriously..:)
"For we look at things unseen rather than the seen, for the seen are temporary, but the unseen are eternal" (2 Corinthians 4:18)
3- At least losing your mum helped you to eventually begin turning to God for comfort.
4- Your hubs sound like they were washouts, but they're history now..:)