Adam is not the imbecile you make him out to be.
he is not careless, stupid, blind or incompetent, and it didn't just 'slip his mind' that he wasn't supposed to eat.
Adam is fully aware of what has happened to his wife and fully aware of the consequences and the choice set before him.
Adam is a type of Christ: he takes the sin of his bride upon himself in order to reconcile her to himself. for love, he leaves his Father and clings to her.
his sin is putting her before God; he willingly, knowingly, intelligently chose death rather than separation from her.
I'm not saying Adam is an "imbecile," nor did I say anything that in the slightest way implied that he was. His degree of
intelligence is completely irrelevant one way or another, and has no bearing on the point under contention. Maybe you just haven't heard of this view and are having trouble wrapping your mind around it. Here is a quote from a conservative commentary, the
Bible Knowledge Commentary, the Genesis part by Allen P. Ross: "Then, as though to show that alienation between the man and the woman go far beyond the shame that each now feels in the presence of the other, the author recounts the petty attempt on the man’s part to cast blame on the woman (“she gave me,” v.12) and, obliquely, on God (“the woman you put here with me”). In the man’s words there is an ironic reminder of God’s original intention: “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him” (2:18). As an index of the extent of humankind’s fall, the man now sees God’s good gift, the woman, as the real source of his trouble." The ESV Study Bible, which is also quite theologically conservative, says: "The fact that Adam was 'with her' and that he knowingly ate what God had forbidden indicates that Adam's sin was both an act of conscious rebellion against God and a failure to carry out his divinely ordained responsibility to guard or 'keep' (Gen 2:15) both the garden and the woman that God had created as 'a helper fit for him' (2:18, 20)."
I've read every word of three commentaries on this stuff in addition to writing my own answers. None of them had or so much as described a theory like yours, that Adam was brilliant (
no one says this, and again, there is nothing in the Bible that states or clearly implies it), that Eve was
merely "tricked" (and not actually rebellious), or that Adam deliberately sinned in order to be with Eve, whom he knew was merely tricked into sinning. The latter is merely a speculative theory. It simply cannot be asserted as confidently as you have been doing.
You seem to be surprised that someone has a theory that contradicts yours, and your response, rather than come to grips with it and carefully refute it, is to descend into angry abuse, which makes it hard for you even to read and understand what you are responding to. Again: I am not saying Eve ate the fruit because she was stupid. She ate the fruit because she was an innocent naif who trusted the serpent rather than God, because she liked what it said more, and ultimately (this was the real sin) placed her own judgment above God's. The situation with Adam is less clear. He was undeceived by the serpent (as Paul says). But beyond that we do not actually know why he chose to eat the fruit. The most straightforward way of reading the text, I think, is simply to say that Eve's example and suggestion influenced him. He ate because she did. Again, he too was a naif, no matter how excellent he was otherwise in his mental abilities, his body, and his habits. He obviously did not anticipate the disaster he was bringing upon himself. One imagines him like many a smart young person, bending the rules: "Maybe it won't matter. Maybe God will forget. Maybe God will forgive. Maybe God will shrug it off. Maybe I'll just get a slap on the wrist. And this is such nice-looking fruit and here is nice Eve giving it to me!"
You don't have to be stupid, a caveman, or an imbecile to have such thoughts. But if you have no experience of evil, sin, punishment, an angry God, Satan’s true nature, etc., then...yeah. Then it’s easy. Inevitable even.