When I ignore someone, I don’t put them on ignore in settings, I just skip over their posts when I come to them. If I already know they are not going to be saying anything that can help build up my trust, I just scroll past their posts, looking for the ones that might help me.
I have some triggers. I guess we all do. But those triggers don’t make me angry. Mostly they just make me skip the persons posts. My biggest triggers for that are, 1. Trying to control the words I use or don’t use and, 2. Not speaking forthrightly but making suggestions or innuendos or “alluding” to something rather than just openly saying it.
I’m okay with forthright. Im not okay with trying to get me to see something or consider something without being blunt and to the point.
As for trying to control the words I use or don’t use, or telling me to stop using certain words, it’s an even bigger trigger and I will just flee anyone trying to do that to me. I’m fine with being asked what I mean when I use a certain word, but I am seriously, seriously not okay with being told: STOP USING THAT WORD/THOSE WORDS!!