Always good to have you around, sister.
I was reading this after posting something, and it dawned on me the contrast between the NT writer's viewpoint and what the Devil tries to sell people. I posted the following, adding the explanation below it:
18 My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth. 19 And hereby we know that we are of the truth, and shall assure our hearts before Him. 20 For if our heart condemn us, God is greater than our heart, and knows all things. 21 Beloved, if our heart condemn us not, then have we confidence toward God. 22 And whatsoever we ask, we receive of Him, because we keep His commandments, and do those things that are pleasing in His sight. 23 And this is His commandment, That we should believe on the name of His Son Jesus Christ, and love one another, as He gave us commandment. 24 And he that keeps His commandments dwells in Him, and He in him. And hereby we know that He abides in us, by the Spirit which He hath given us. (1 John 3:18-24)
Now, he starts by saying we don't love in word, but by our actions, and that this is how we know if we are of the truth or not. If we are doing these things, i.e. walking in obedience, it is the means by which we shall assure our hearts (v.19). It is by keeping His commandments and doing those things that are pleasing in His sight that we receive answers to our prayers (v.22), and moreover have confidence before God that we will (v.21). And His command is not just that we believe on the name of His Son Jesus Christ, but that we love one another, which is the thrust of the entire passage from v.18 all the way through to v.24. This is how we will know if He actually abides in us, in fact.
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The way the Devil tells people to view themselves is directly opposite. Obedience to God's word and God's commandments should NOT be how you view yourself. In fact, you should be proud of yourselves for breaking the commandments of God; for standing up for yourselves in defiance of what God has asked men to do. In fact, the more abominable your lifestyle is the more you deserve the best in life.
If that doesn't sound like a trap, I don't know what does.