You are doubling down on your mistaken view of God's character. I will speak in context to fear as you allude to it, not as the Bible expressed the fear of God which is deep respect and love.
Yes, there were some in the past such as those whose tables were being overturned in the temple, and there will be some in the future, crying out to the rocks and mountains to hide them from the face of the Son whose glory they shall not be able to stand before, all of whom were very afraid, but that is not a prime characteristic of God's nature...
“For the LORD shall rise up as in mount Perazim, he shall be wroth as in the valley of Gibeon, that he may do his work,
his strange work; and bring to pass his act, his strange act. ”
Isaiah 28:21 KJV
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I have no issue against God for destroying Sodom, or for the flood. In doing what He did, God was protecting His own redemption plan for mankind. If He had allowed such wickedness to continue, it would have infected all to such a degree that they would have rejected God's grace and mercy altogether, and the wages of sin, death, would have come upon all. Such judgments were necessary. But it is a necessity that God hates to have to do.
“Say unto them, As I live, saith the Lord GOD,
I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked; but that the wicked turn from his way and live: turn ye, turn ye from your evil ways; for why will ye die, O house of Israel? ”
Ezekiel 33:11 KJV
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But what you keep doing is extend these judgments beyond what the character of God could tolerate. Burn them forever? Keep them alive for the express purpose of inflicting pain and suffering? Why would He do that? If God had no desire to bring death upon anyone, but was forced to do so because of sin, how much less will He torture people when it isn't necessary? The wages of sin is death. That's it. Death. The price of our redemption was death. Jesus paid that price. He didn't suffer in hell for all eternity. If eternal torment was the wages of sin, then we are not saved.