Sorry Logabe, just because you can find several people who believe in "universal reconciliation" that does not make it fact.
There are milions of people on earth who can made an exceptional arugment that Jesus never walked the earth...
But the simple fact is that nothing you have said and nothing you quoted these people as saying explains or negates these scriptures:
And whosoever speaketh a word against the Son of man, it shall be forgiven him: but whosoever speaketh against the Holy Ghost, it shall not be forgiven him, neither in this world, neither in the [world] to come." -- Matt. 12:32
Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven." - Matt 7:21
It really is as simple as that.