Hi all,I am new here.I would really appreciate some support and advice.My significant other of 4 years views online lustful image. I have recently gotten much closer to God...I did not begin the relationship christian like, but I have decided to stop doing all lustful things in my relationship (several months ago). I am happier this way. My bf wasn't as eager to stop even though he admits and knows it's wrong. We are both christian. He's actually very interested in religion and he is a good, kind, loving man, but has this struggle. I constantly pray for him about this and ask God for guidance. I'm at least glad he was honest with me and told me he views such online images when he has certain "urges" that are not fulfilled as they used to be. I understand that everyone has certain urges as humans, but I am able to get past them and not get involved in lustful acts, while he tells me that his urges get so distractful that he just watches something and takes care of it, if you know what I mean. He doesn't like having it on his mind continually so that's his solution. I told him my concerns, I suggested he recite a prayer when feeling that way but he says he's tried and it just doesnt work. I told him if we get married I dont want that in my house (on the internet) and he said its something he probably wouldn't do, espcially due to the pleasures we can experience in marriage and rightly so. He admits to me that what he does is wrong and that he knows he has to go to confession at some point, whenever he deals with it in that way I guess. He has acutally been a spiritual support for me, even though he struggles with this himself. I dont think I should leave him over this issue, I certainly have my imperfections as well. I expressed my concerns about how men can get addicted to this stuff and he assured me its not that frequent in his case. Basically he tells me it shouldnt be my concern, and that it shouldnt bother me. But the thing is, I want our relationship to be christian. And it for the most part is. Sigh, anyway, please advice..