ok, well sorry if i have misconstrued your position, but, i must say, there appears to be a conflict in some of your own understandings. As much as the Golden Rule was considered to be different than treating others as oneself, equally, denouncing law in one context, but then imposing it in another, seems confusing and contradictory. I was saying to allow God to decide right from wrong, as we would not even comprehend the concept of morality if we were not endowed with his spirit. I do not believe that any other creature on earth has this awareness.
If I'm not mistaken, you are saying that, a written law, either by human legislation or divine imposition, is antithetical to human evolution and progress. But that man, by his own accord, must apply discretion to his actions, thus, making himself his own private legislator? i.e. '...which structure entails our restraining ourselves and not permitting our emotions and desires to just run rampant, else we could/would alienate others unnecessarily...'
It's like we both agree that man cannot act selfishly or indiscriminately, and must apply constraints to his basal propensities. So then, the only difference is, you resent God's authority over man, and prefer self-determination. ...of course, this is because you don't believe that he exists.
If I'm correct in my previous conclusions, I can only see utter chaos stemming from such a personal, subjective and arbitrary governance. For, it's like I said before, there are people who live in this world, that wouldn't even agree that peace and love are the best policies for human conduct. For what agreement can there be between Ghandi and Hitler, or Déscartes and Napolean, Confucious and Ghengis Khan, Mother Theresa and Mussolini, Caesar and Socrates?
This, is the intrinsic problem, ...man is not qualified to govern himself.