@marks,
Concerning the last few posts, I side with The Disciple John. Not because he knows the word, rather it's the opposite.
You, on the other hand, seem to know the word; I said "seem" because you have been impatient/reluctant to teach the word to those that inquire of you to know the word but had NOT utilized 1 Peter 3:15-18 which reads:
15)
But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear:
16)
Having a good conscience; that, whereas they speak evil of you, as of evildoers, they may be ashamed that falsely accuse your good conversation [behavior] in Christ.
17) For it is better, if the will of God be so, that ye suffer for well doing, than for evil doing.
18)
For Christ also hath once suffered for sins, the just for the unjust, that he might bring us to God, being put to death in the flesh, but quickened by the Spirit.
To God Be The Glory