From my X / Twitter “For you” feed this morning -
“‘CHRISTIANITY IS A RELATIONSHIP, NOT A RELIGION!’ We’ve been repeating this phrase in Christianity for decades, but … it’s problematic
The longer I’ve done ministry the more I’ve realized this phrase is usually just code for ‘I can live however I want and still claim to love Jesus.’ The majority of Christians who say this are using this term to justify their disobedience and rebellion to God. It’s a way of escaping any accountability and branding it under the banner of love.
The problem with this idea that Christianity isn’t a religion but a relationship is that it sets these two things against themselves as if they are opposing, creating a false dichotomy. It deceives people into thinking that they have to choose between a religion and a relationship.
It’s actually both A RELIGION AND A RELATIONSHIP.
The word religion literally comes from the Latin ‘religare’ which means ‘to bind’ or ‘obligation.’
Binding speaks of a covenant.
Religion is a set of boundaries and expectations that God has to be in relationship with Him.
Helathy relationship requires boundaries and obligations. When I said yes to my husband, I was saying no to every other man. I am now bound to him and I must remain faithful to him for the rest of my days.
If you truly love Jesus - you will honor him.
You will put Him first.
TO LOVE JESUS IS TO OBEY HIS COMMANDS.”
(Millicent Sedra)
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(Bold is mine.)
“‘CHRISTIANITY IS A RELATIONSHIP, NOT A RELIGION!’ We’ve been repeating this phrase in Christianity for decades, but … it’s problematic
The longer I’ve done ministry the more I’ve realized this phrase is usually just code for ‘I can live however I want and still claim to love Jesus.’ The majority of Christians who say this are using this term to justify their disobedience and rebellion to God. It’s a way of escaping any accountability and branding it under the banner of love.
The problem with this idea that Christianity isn’t a religion but a relationship is that it sets these two things against themselves as if they are opposing, creating a false dichotomy. It deceives people into thinking that they have to choose between a religion and a relationship.
It’s actually both A RELIGION AND A RELATIONSHIP.
The word religion literally comes from the Latin ‘religare’ which means ‘to bind’ or ‘obligation.’
Binding speaks of a covenant.
Religion is a set of boundaries and expectations that God has to be in relationship with Him.
Helathy relationship requires boundaries and obligations. When I said yes to my husband, I was saying no to every other man. I am now bound to him and I must remain faithful to him for the rest of my days.
If you truly love Jesus - you will honor him.
You will put Him first.
TO LOVE JESUS IS TO OBEY HIS COMMANDS.”
(Millicent Sedra)
Millicent Sedra (@MillicentSedra) on X
“CHRISTIANITY IS A RELATIONSHIP, NOT A RELIGION!” We’ve been repeating this phrase in Christianity for decades, but… it’s problematic The longer I’ve done ministry the more I’ve realised this phrase is usually just code for “I can live however I want and still claim to love
(Bold is mine.)
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