Yes, we are pre-selected for salvation.
This will have a lot to do with our differences in our views. So maybe we shouldn't get too caught up in the details over which we may disagree. Otherwise I both enjoy, and profit from our exchanges.
I agree. However, The reformers believe in a theological concept of "Imputed Righteousness." Imputed righteousness is a concept in Christian theology proposing that the "righteousness of Christ...is imputed to [believers]—that is, treated as if it were theirs through faith." It is on the basis of Jesus' righteousness that God accepts humans. This acceptance is also referred to as justification.
I do not agree with the idea of "justification" as it is commonly understood, which suggests that the righteousness of Christ is credited to believers. According to the Bible, this is not the case. If it were true, then our justification would be based on merit, even if indirectly. However, God does not account the righteousness of Christ to our credit, as this would be both deceptive and immoral.
God's justification is based on the concept of propitiation, which means "to turn away God's wrath", whereby our sin is pardoned and forgiven on the basis that we have agreed to believe and follow his son Jesus Christ.
To me this seems to be a clear presentation in Scripture, such as in:
Philippians 3:8-9 KJV
8) Yea doubtless, and I count all things but loss for the excellency of the knowledge of Christ Jesus my Lord: for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and do count them but dung, that I may win Christ,
9) And be found in him, not having mine own righteousness, which is of the law, but that which is through the faith of Christ, the righteousness which is of God by faith:
Paul rejects anything he's done that would be considered righteous, instead desiring to have "the righteousness which is of God by faith".
I don't see the merit, myself, of faith. What is it to your credit that you accept what is true?
I see a distinction in Scripture between works and faith, and that faith is not counted as a work, and therefore is not meritorious.
I don't see imputation of righteousness to be any more deceptive than the forgiveness of sins. Sins are sent away, counted no more, except, we did in fact sin. And righteousness is given, except, we didn't in fact do what was right.
To me, this passage addresses this point:
Romans 4:3-8 KJV
3) For what saith the scripture? Abraham believed God, and it was counted unto him for righteousness.
4) Now to him that worketh is the reward not reckoned of grace, but of debt.
5) But to him that worketh not, but believeth on him that justifieth the ungodly, his faith is counted for righteousness.
6) Even as David also describeth the blessedness of the man, unto whom God imputeth righteousness without works,
7) Saying, Blessed are they whose iniquities are forgiven, and whose sins are covered.
8) Blessed is the man to whom the Lord will not impute sin.
I am using the term "declaration" to indicate a new description, not a change in our nature. For instance, one way to describe holiness is to consider the holy implements used in the temple service.
Suppose I have two identical bowls with no differences in their nature, shape, material, or form. The only difference is that one bowl is used for eating cereal, while the other is dedicated for use in the temple service. Although the two bowls are indistinguishable, the second bowl is considered holy because it has been consecrated for service to God. It will never be used for any other purpose, such as eating cereal.
God declared that the children of the Patriarchs were his holy people. As his holy people, they were indistinguishable from any other people group. The only reason why these folks were "holy" is because God chose them. And he chose them in particular because he loved their fathers. (Deuteronomy 7:7-8) Two bowls: one his holy the other is not. From all the people groups on the Earth: one is holy, the rest are not.
I like to use the same anologies for holy. The temple tongs, identical to what you use at home, except these are dedicated to temple service. They might even be bent, difficult to use, drop things, but they are still holy, having been set apart.
I see our salvation, rebirth, being a complete change in nature. Unlike tongs, we are not fit to serve without regeneration. The one who is in flesh cannot please God, and therefore must be changed.
I see in this passage an illustration of righteousness and holiness:
Ephesians 4:22-25 KJV
22) That ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts;
23) And be renewed in the spirit of your mind;
24) And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness.
25) Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour: for we are members one of another.
We are recreated in righteousness and true holiness. We speak truth (righteousness) because we are members one of another (holiness). We do what is right because we've been set apart from Adamic humanity to be included in Christ's humanity, members one of another.
The change to our nature renders us members of His body, and members of one another. So I see more than a declaration.
Sex is not the only way to be intimate or special. But I have related the true and valid meaning of the verb "to know." I didn't make it up.
True, but sex is what "know" is an idiom for in the Bible. When it says that Joseph didn't know Mary until after Jesus was born, there was a specific thing this referred to. The verb ginosko is to know something, or someone, and is also used as an idiom for sex. I'm not making this up.
Consider what Jesus said,
Matthew 7:22-23
Many will say to Me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in Your name, and in Your name cast out demons, and in Your name perform many miracles?’ And then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness.
In this passage, Jesus is talking about people who not only hear his teachings but also put them into practice. He is warning against those who only pretend to know and follow him but don't actually do so. Jesus will declare "I never knew you" to such people, indicating that they haven't made the commitment to trust and follow him. Instead, they practice lawlessness.
I'd suggest that they didn't really put His teaching into practice, they practiced what they wanted, maybe Jesus' teaching gave them a format, but they were not doing what He said. Maybe the only thing they did was make claims, "we cast out demons, etc.", but maybe they did, maybe they didn't. But yes, aside from that, I agree with these things.
Those He did foreknow means those of whom God had advance knowledge. Using "foreknow" as indicating previous relationship, you are stuck with that idiom.
The only valid way to see it is how he meant it.
Too bad he's not here to ask! But the Holy Spirit is.
It's an interesting construction no matter how you look at it.
Much love!