Well, I do not want to derail the discussion on charismatic experiences to worship styles. Suffice it to say that my point is simply that your preference is to sing, "The Old Rugged Cross" or sit back and listen to a choir. Another person's preference may be to worship to a more contemporary song, dance, and maybe even fall down on the floor. I dont think we should equate preferences in worship with good vs. evil. So, in my opinion, being slain in the spirit is not an act of the Holy Spirit, but it doesnt mean it is evil, any more than an organ or a drum set. To each his own...as long as God is the focus. (P.S. I think you can have contemporary music without having a "rock concert." Remember, those golden oldies were once the hated contemporary songs of a previous generation! In fact, A Mighty Fortress Is Our God was sung to an old bar tune!)
Okay, I'll concede the point that contemporary music is just as good as the classics...well, some of it is, anyway

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I went to WinterJam last year....yeah, a little lady with silver hair and a walker, yet...and I had a ball, rocking out with the great music. It was wonderful, and it put me on a spiritual high that still hasn't worn off.
But church is something else. Church needs to be about worship....not about putting on a performance. Worship needs to be an interactive experience, and we can't all play the drums. If a younger church wants more contemporary music, so be it....but not as a show, but rather as something they can also participate in. So, pass out the music....or what the heck, put it up on your projector, or whatever....and let the rafters ring!
When I was younger, I was a part of a "garage band" called "The Stone Balloon". We were pretty popular in the northwestern part of New York State, especially in towns like Eden and Hamburg, and we were even known in Buffalo. In fact, WKBW radio once had a contest, strictly for amateurs....and we won. I was the only girl in the band, and all I did was sing....oh, and dance a bit.
And before I got hurt, I used to love to dance.
I've done the Charleston with my Daddy, I've done the shimmy like sister Kate never knew it, I have mashed the potatoes and ridden the pony with my own generation....I have waltzed and polka'd, and even trotted with the foxes...it's all good. I even took ballet and tap when I was a little kid. I loved it.
And I have sung "Amazing Grace" to the tune of "The House of the Rising Sun" (the Rolling Stones, in case you didn't know), and even threw in an extra verse written by yours truly.

But worship is not dance recital, and it is not a concert. It must be interactive, or it's no good.
Think of it this way....you don't invite guests to dinner at your house to sit back and watch you and your family eat, do you? Of course not. You lay out places for your expected company and you serve the food to them, as well as to your family and yourself.
Same idea...we all need to be fed. It's no fun sitting in a pew watching a few performers lap up all the cream... Forget the programs, and pass out spoons to everyone!
Like I said, I can be emotionally moved to tears while singing a worship song. Just because it is not the Holy Spirit making me cry does not mean my outward expression is "fake." I, personally, am not a "dancer" or someone who likes to move around a lot or lift hands, etc. I think we just need to be cautious of determining which particular expressions are genuine and which are not. David danced in a very undignified way before the Lord and it seemed pretty pleasing to God. Maybe God is pleased when someone loses their dignity and falls down on the floor in worship? I dont know. I just know I am not comfortable making those determinations. I worship in the way that fits with my personality and expect others will do the same with the assumption that there isnt always a right or wrong so long as the focus is on the Lord and things are done in order.
First of all, I'm going to assume that, when you are emotionally moved to tears while singing, it isn't because of your fabulous tenor. I'm going to guess that it is the music that moves you....the beautiful lyrics, the sweet melody, the soothing harmony...oh, to hear the angels sing! And I wouldn't be so very sure that the HS is not involved in moving you to tears. You feel cleaner, somehow, and closer to God after such an experience, don't you?
If you happen to be in public when it happens, I'll bet you duck your head, to keep anyone from noticing. My Dad had one of those huge hankies, and he'd pretend to be wiping his nose...but somehow, the thing always wound up covering his eyes as well...for a moment or two...if you didn't know him you would never have suspected that he could tear up at the sound of a children's choir singing "Oh Little Town of Bethlehem" at Christmas.
But the charismatic movement is something else. This isn't being overwhelmed with emotion. These people file up to the altar, expecting to be knocked out. They intend to wind up "wriggling on the floor". It isn't some emotional reaction that overtakes them, say, at the opening verses to the Sermon on the Mount. This is planned and deliberate.
I don't know that David's dance was "undignified". I do know that his wife, Michal, Saul's daughter, was jealous. She was the one complaining, no one else. She didn't want him strutting his stuff in front of the local gals. From what I read, it seems that God is unhappy with Michal.
Was God pleased with the men who came to arrest Jesus when He knocked them over? Or was He happy with the things Saul had done when He knocked him down and blinded him? I do not think so.
Falling backwards is not something to be sought after:
1Sa 4:18 And it came to pass, when he made mention of the ark of God, that
he fell from off the seat backward by the side of the gate, and his neck brake, and he died: for he was an old man, and heavy. And he had judged Israel forty years.
Psa 40:14
Let them be ashamed and confounded together that seek after my soul to destroy it;
let them be driven backward and put to shame that wish me evil.
Psa 70:2 Let them be ashamed and confounded that seek after my soul:
let them be turned backward, and put to confusion, that desire my hurt.
Isa 28:13 But the word of the LORD was unto them precept upon precept, precept upon precept; line upon line, line upon line; here a little, and there a little; that
they might go, and fall backward, and be broken, and snared, and taken.
The slain victim hitting the floor and the gentle tears in your eyes are not the same thing, dear man....nor are they from the same source...
Well, I understand your desire to have close fellowship in an intimate setting. However, I do also have concerns about such house church models. The NT makes it pretty clear that local fellowships are to be guided by elders and there should be a sense of authority and guidance for the group by those mature believers who are designated and appointed to be elders. My concern about house churches is that these often exist with a flattened leadership structure such that there is no authority and no accountability to particular shepherds. I worry that these house church models which are becoming so popular today are more about our postmodern culture's rejection of any and all authority in favor of exalting individualism rather than a desire to follow the NT model. I do not know what your house church is like, so I am just throwing this out there as a general concern. Each model comes with its own issues...whether charismatic or otherwise.
Let not your fears for me overwhelm you, dear man. Four of us are actually ordained ministers of the Bible.
But I think this idea you have of "authority" is a bit skewed. Jesus Christ is our authority. He is our Shepherd. Pastors, Deacons, Elders, etc, are servants...at best, they are sort of "Junior Shepherds".
Christians are accountable to each other, but mainly, we are accountable to Jesus Christ, Who says "
If you love Me, keep My commands".
And what are His commands? Well, I could go in depth here, but I also do not wish to derail the thread. In brief, He tells us to "
Love one another. As I have loved you, so you also must love one another. By this, all men will know that you are my disciples...by the love that you have, one for the other."
And that, me bucko, is what is missing from the church in our "postmodern age".
I wasnt ignoring your concern. I just havent seen charismatic parents being any more abusive or neglectful of kids than others groups. I have heard of parents of very conservative, bible-believing churches being very strict and even abusive toward kids as well. I just havent seen one particular strand of faith lend itself more towards the mistreatment of children, nor have a really read anything about such trends.
Perhaps you just aren't someone that kids feel comfortable talking to. Their world isn't always the safe, secure place it ought to be. It can be a very dangerous, scary place, where everyone is bigger than you.
Now, I'm definitely not saying that all charismatics are abusive, or even that most of them are. And I'm not saying that they are the only ones who abuse their kids.
Enough of them do to make it a problem, but then, it's a problem everywhere. Hell has opened her mouth, indeed!
There's more to it, than that, although that would be bad enough...
The kids watch their parents. They see the gibbering in "tongues" and they do not see emotion in their parents' eyes. One kid told me that it was as if his Mom was dead during her "tongues".
And they watch as their parents are "slain".
Where do you think my idea that there might be a demon behind it came from? None other than a young man called Travis.....