Very interesting topic, thanks.
But I live in the ghetto so it's not totally advisable.
Yes, that makes things more challenging.
A lot of the people here are hostile and angry people. LOL!
They would be LESS hostile and angry if they knew someone cared about them.
You learn to not make too much eye contact with certain types.
Yes, you need some street smarts.
But, many will respond positively to a caring person.
Some of the people are friendly, but it's about 50%.
Well, 50% is PLENTY for helping with your mental health goal.
I have a bit of a gift when it comes to taking to strangers.
I can make friends in line at the grocer. Drives my wife crazy. - LOL
Once when I was alone at the grocer checkout I talked to the guy in front of me.
He definitely looked like someone you wouldn't want to talk to.
He was wearing a Hell's Angels style motorcycle jacket. Looked like a rough character.
I complimented him on his cool jacket, not expecting more than a sneer in return.
Surprisingly, he responded well, Filling me in on the details of the work he had done.
He was all smiles, wishing me a good day as we parted.
I haven't been afraid of anyone since.
I think the key is to GET people talking about themselves,
and KEEP them talking about themselves. In general people are very lonely.
They WANT to engage with ANYONE that will show an interest.
I KEEP the conversation moving by formulating questions about what they just said.
Rather than talk about myself, I want THEM to talk about their interests.
ANY comment they make is a pathway to MORE. Well...
unless they tell you to leave them alone. - LOL
Although, I might keep the conversation going, to find what is wrong.
But that may take all the tact and diplomacy I can muster.
Anyone that can do that has mastered the art of conversation.
But enough about me, what do you think about all this?
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