The challenge in Christianity is not to love Jesus, it's to love Judas.

  • Welcome to Christian Forums, a Christian Forum that recognizes that all Christians are a work in progress.

    You will need to register to be able to join in fellowship with Christians all over the world.

    We hope to see you as a part of our community soon and God Bless!

amigo de christo

Well-Known Member
Sep 12, 2020
30,561
51,718
113
53
San angelo
Faith
Christian
Country
United States
They have to eat., so, instead of worrying about how they will deal with the money........just realize that they have to eat.
Let this be your point of view.

See, we can't control what other people do, but we can give to the poor, as we are instructed to do.

Let me show the Reader a verse, if you are all tied up in your head, worrying that the money that you give to someone who is poor, is not going to be used as you would have it.

Notice this verse.

Luke 6:35 ....... "God is kind to the ungrateful and the evil".

See that?

That is how we are to consider our help.
We dont qualify them as being worthy for our help.
What we do is see the need and give.
I used to give money to them .
Till more than once , yes more than once i even seen them buying , beer.
Look i aint saying one cannot give
but friend why are we so lazy that we cannot just give them FOOD .
Of course we are not responsible to what one does with that money .
But friend you have to realize not ALL , but many of them are TRAPPED IN BONDAGE
to drugs . And i wont be an enabler to do that my friend .
NOW i aint saying NOT to give ,
But there is a better way to do things my friend .
I had some even come into the store i used to work at
and cause they knew i was chrsitain
THEY would try and quoate what little verses they knew
ABOUT GIVING UNTO THE LEAST of these , through even drunk lips as they wanted money .
Look i aint saying not to give , BUT we need some serious discernment in the building .
 

Behold

Well-Known Member
Apr 11, 2020
21,508
8,420
113
Netanya or Pensacola
Faith
Christian
Country
Israel
I used to give money to them .
Till more than once , yes more than once i even seen them buying , beer.

So, because you see some of them not using the money as you want, you just stopped giving to any of them?
How is that right?

Listen, dont focus on THEM.........as God is looking at YOU.... at your heart, and at my heart.
He knows all about them...........and when He tells us to give, that is what He means.
Its HIS money, and we get to use it, and He told us to give to the Poor.
Jesus said...."the poor will always be with you".

God never told us to "only give to the rightesous poor".. "only give to the poor who will be responsible".

C'mon.
The reason they are poor and living out of a dumpter is because they have messed up their lives.
So, they are not responsible, and that is why they are on the street.

So, lets help them.......according to the instruction to give to the POOR.
Are they poor?
That that is all we need to know.
 

amigo de christo

Well-Known Member
Sep 12, 2020
30,561
51,718
113
53
San angelo
Faith
Christian
Country
United States
They have to eat., so, instead of worrying about how they will deal with the money........just realize that they have to eat.
Let this be your point of view.

See, we can't control what other people do, but we can give to the poor, as we are instructed to do.

Let me show the Reader a verse, if you are all tied up in your head, worrying that the money that you give to someone who is poor, is not going to be used as you would have it.

Notice this verse.

Luke 6:35 ....... "God is kind to the ungrateful and the evil".

See that?

That is how we are to consider our help... .just like that.
We dont qualify them as being worthy for our help., as being POOR has already qualified them for our help.
What we do is see the need and give and their most obvious and daily need is to have a meal.
They do have to eat . Give them food to eat .
The next time one comes up to ask you for money for food .
Tell them okay here let me take you to the store .
IF all of a sudden you start hearing , no , no i can do this or etc
I would not GIVE THEM anything . other than
i would continue to say here let me take you to a store and lets buy some food for you .
But then that becomes TIME for us to be having to do something .
There is a time to give
but what if one wont work . should we give them bread or .....................
Again i aint saying DO NOT give . IF you want to keep giving money then do so .
But i was just trying to help you so as you might not enable them . DUE TO
well that sure aint good for them . Always pray before giving too . But yes i do always encourage
taking care of the poor . So this was not an attack at all . Just a reminder .
 

amigo de christo

Well-Known Member
Sep 12, 2020
30,561
51,718
113
53
San angelo
Faith
Christian
Country
United States
So, because you see some of them not using the money as you want, you just stopped giving to any of them?
How is that right?

Listen, dont focus on THEM.........as God is looking at YOU.... at your heart, and at my heart.
He knows all about them...........and when He tells us to give, that is what He means.

God never told us to "only give to the rightesous poor".. "only give to the poor who will be responsible".

C'mon.
The reason they are poor and living out of a dumpter is because they have messed up their lives.
So, they are not responsible, and that is why they are on the street.

So, lets help them.......according to the instruction to give to the POOR.
Are they poor?
That that is all we need to know.
Again you just took the WHOLE thing out total context . SLOW DOWN thine MIND my friend .
I never said it was due to just that .
NOr did i say i dont give to them .
I just wanted you to see some examples i seen .
SLow down . Wow my friend you leaped to massive conclusoins quite fast .
That i must admit must have been the first time i seen you do it . BUT man it was fast and it was DEFINTELY an assumption .
Slow down .
I mean had ya read it i said I AINT telling you NOT to give , just be aware .
 

Behold

Well-Known Member
Apr 11, 2020
21,508
8,420
113
Netanya or Pensacola
Faith
Christian
Country
Israel
They do have to eat . Give them food to eat .

You want to tell the fourm to only give them food?


What i know is that the poor are suffering and i know how to relieve it., and i do.
Its not a cure, but its a blessing to them.

God said """Give"""".....and He never told us to "pray about it first".

So, if You see a dirty street person.....thin, suffering, do you need to "pray about helping them"?

Did God have to pray about it first, when He told us to "give to the poor"?
 
Last edited:
  • Prayer
Reactions: amigo de christo

Sister-n-Christ

Well-Known Member
May 3, 2025
1,047
968
113
USA
Faith
Christian
Country
United States
I give them money.
Its what ive been explaining that they need, most of all.
Try reading more carefully what im showing youi.





You decided to explain your opinion regarding a person the street, not to be given money.
You even described that they "steal from one another".
So, your perspective is flawed.
Now you're resorting to adding condescension to your aggressive manner.

As my posts show,I and all who read you are aware you give them money.
What you refuse to accept and respect is that I support them with tangible goods that keep their belly filled and their head shaded in summer and warm and dry in winter.

You demonstrate yourself to be incapable of civil discourse.
I have no further desire to give you an outlet upon which you may deposit your Animus.
 
  • Like
Reactions: St. SteVen

Behold

Well-Known Member
Apr 11, 2020
21,508
8,420
113
Netanya or Pensacola
Faith
Christian
Country
Israel
Now you're resorting to adding condescension to your aggressive manner.

I posted what you told us. @Sister-n-Christ ..

No need to try to dodge it by creating some untruth, post after post.

See...What you originally posted is crystal clear.
You confirmed that giving money to the poor, is not what you believe is necessary.

What you refuse to accept and respect is that I support them with tangible goods that keep their belly filled and their head shaded in summer and warm and dry in winter.

I read that your relatives support them, partially, with money given to them as donations., according to what you posted.
So, that is money for the poor, and im offering them money into their hand.
You dont seem to be able to comprehend that its the same thing.

Its MONEY given ..........first and foremost, and in your original post to me, you encouraged the members here not to do that for the poor.

So, you can dodge, and imply, and redirect and falsely accuse..... and continue to try to deflect, and ill continue to simply state what you originally posted.

See you there.