The whole world is the whole world without exception! He loves even sinners even though they might not be His child but, just His creation. He came FOR the lost, sinners and all were lost and sinful, and many will remain in that state. But if the bible says He died for the sins of the world, I take that in it's very simplistic and clear meaning.
I'm sorry S.G. this is a doctrine that I have had experiences with as well as much reading. If it is true then, I suppose I am just not saved as, I NEVER felt compelled to the point of not being able to resist, coming to The Lord...Truth is what brought me to my understanding and desire for all things God.
BTW, could you even look an unbeliever in the eye and say that God loves them?? I think you would have to re-word and say "God might love you" Also, why does God have us evangelizing, and why does He put such importance to it if all has been said and done? It seems that the doctrines of TULIP and those who follow it, are being hypocrites when they "evangelize"...JMHO and, I mean no disrespect, I'm just giving my views.
God Bless,
nancy