My question was how is a person to know whether they are led by the spirit or just by their wanting to do a good work because someone wants them too.
About 4 years ago I was in a church Sunday School that my wife wanted to go to when the class decided to take up food and household items like toilet paper and paper towels, etc. This sounded good so the class did it for a single mom with 3 children.
About 8 weeks later we were informed that welfare was giving this Mom money to buy those items and we were to stop doing it. WHY! Because she was taking our food and then taking the money she got from welfare to buy her drugs on which she had just missed death by a drug overdose.
--- Needless to say the class never saw this result.
So back to my question of which some refused to answer by dancing all around it and seem to question as to why I asked it.
First of all, when you are led by the Spirit, the end result that you see is not important. In your story you don't know the affect it may have had on the woman. Many times you may move out in faith, led by the Spirit, and are then shot out of the saddle by friends or foes. It doesn't matter. The end result is not our concern. The leading of the Spirit is.
As to how to discern whether you just did this as a good work or as being led by the Spirit, I would say, did you want to do it when it was brought up? Or were you troubled about it? The Holy Spirit knows how to trouble our spirit when He doesn't want us to do something. Till then, we just walk and do. Count all that you do as being led by the Spirit. You already know what is wrong or right so you don't wrestle over adultry or stealing, etc., as whether or not this is the leading of the Spirit. (Philippians 3:15) "Let us therefore, as many as be perfect, be thus minded: and if in anything ye be otherwise minded, God shall reveal even this unto you."
So, you just go. If you wanted to give to the woman the gift you gave, then praise God and count it of Him as He did not trouble or burden you not to give.
Stranger