I have recently retired, and now have the time to learn how to play golf. I have discovered some funds about myself I never knew, and discovered that there are always parallels and analogues between the spiritual and the physical. I have owned in gulf that one must never focus on the end score, nor even on getting the ball to where you want it to go. You focus only on that which you can personally and directly have an effect. Your grip... Swing... Stance... Club choice. The rest, where the ball goes and your final score, is the fruit of doing those things right.
As we get our relationship right with God, as we cleave to Him in prayer and in study of His word, eating the bread of life, the fruits of that relationship will fall into place. Fruits of righteousness. But if we focus on growing fruit: if we focus on gaining eternal life... We will fall because we will be neglecting the very thing that gets us there...John17:3; John15:5; 2Corinthians3
KJV Philippians 1
6 Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ:
9 And this I pray, that your love may abound yet more and more in knowledge and in all judgment;
10 That ye may approve things that are excellent; that ye may be sincere and without offence till the day of Christ;
11 Being filled with the fruits of righteousness, which are by Jesus Christ, unto the glory and praise of God.