The son was the agency used by his Father to bring all things into existence.
That is what Colossians 1:15-17 says...
"15 He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation: 16 for by Him all things were created, both in the heavens and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones, or dominions, or rulers, or authorities—all things have been created through Him and for Him. 17 He is before all things, and in Him all things hold together."
You seem to be saying exactly opposite to what you think.
Do you, or do you not, consider Jesus Christ to have been created? That there was a time He did not exist, and then He came into being because God caused that to be so? Is that what you think?
Much love!