I don't get it...what am I missing here?
well, we are assured that we are "saved" because of some stuff we did umpty ump years ago in a building, and then qualified to go "tell other people about Jesus," automatically inviting the new "convert" into assuming themselves as superior to others, if you get me, and this is not what those Scriptures mean imo.
iow you pretty obviously get it already, and bam if you feel led to tell people about Jesus then do so, but you also--just as obviously, can't say how i know this though--recognize that Christ is Spirit, and you manifest Him, whereas the other might easily be made out to be essentially lip-service.
so don't get me wrong, i still tell people about Christ, sometimes, when they ask, but i count the asking more important than the telling, if you get me. Iow it is usually some situation where i am not taking advantage in a manner that strikes whoever is asking as "would have been perfectly acceptable," and they are curious why i am not taking the advantage, so i might say, "well see how that will be perceived from _______'s pov; or some might call it 'Jesus' or religion or whatever, but yikes what a mess that is, right, imo the Spirit of Christ is manifest when i consider the feelings of, and even protect the advantage of this guy whom we both perceive is kind of a jerk and would not hesitate to take advantage of me if the situation were reversed."