I see the news and politics as only useful up to a point. There's very little most of us can do to affect the globe or our nation. There's much we can do about how we live and how we impact our families and friends.
I have essentially given up on wider society. I see my efforts best focused on my little family---the ones I can truly impact.
Another example is race. I'm African American but Ive given up trying to feel responsible for the plight or actions of every other African American in the US. If they didn't raise me, it's none of my business. It doesn't have the power to make me sad or angry like it used to.
This mindset allows me to tune out a lot of noise and distractions. I focus on what is directly within my control and Im a lot happier for it.
Am I the best wife I can be? The best Mom? The healthiest I can be? The best Christian? I can't worry about what the president is doing before I worry about what kind of impact Im making in my own world.
I have essentially given up on wider society. I see my efforts best focused on my little family---the ones I can truly impact.
Another example is race. I'm African American but Ive given up trying to feel responsible for the plight or actions of every other African American in the US. If they didn't raise me, it's none of my business. It doesn't have the power to make me sad or angry like it used to.
This mindset allows me to tune out a lot of noise and distractions. I focus on what is directly within my control and Im a lot happier for it.
Am I the best wife I can be? The best Mom? The healthiest I can be? The best Christian? I can't worry about what the president is doing before I worry about what kind of impact Im making in my own world.